Not really, but hello all the same. I'm Bob. I'm 38, male, single, and live in Santa Barbara. But you already knew that if you just read the heading of this thing. Personality wise, I guess I'd say that I'm a very laid back and open minded person. I strive for a drama free life. I also think I'm friggin hilarious. Seriously. I love laughing, but not in the way you think. When I say "I love to laugh" I don't mean, "I'm a super happy person and totally well adjusted, no baggage here to deal with nosiree Bob." No that's not what I mean at all. What I mean is I'm surrounded by idiots and I like making fun of them. Some would say that I have a dry and sarcastic sense of humor. But others might say that I'm just an a-hole. I'll leave it up to you to decide. Most of it stems from having what I think is actually healthy sense of cynicism which no matter what people say is actually vital to a functioning democracy. You don't have to be completely cynical to get along with me, but you do need to at least possess the ability to think critically. Otherwise, the jokes will fly right over your head.
What else....I came to SB by way of Texas, Chicago and Tucson. I got my doctorate at UCSB and improbably found a decent gig doing research in SB. What can I say, I really like the weather out here.
Anyways, I'm looking for new friends and quality people to spend my time with. Ideally, I'd find someone who I have chemistry with and that develops into a relationship. But we'll cross that bridge when we get there. In the mean time, you really ought to get to know me. I'm a barrel of monkeys to be around and if nothing else, you'll get some free meals out of it. Quite frankly, I think it's quite amazing that no one has snapped me up yet, so the fact that I'm available, well that's just your dumb good luck, so you really ought to take advantage while you can. :D. Seriously, I have a PhD, I have a stable job, I'm a feminist, and I am not married. That makes me better than 95% of the guys you've gone out with. What are you waiting for?
INFP if you're into that kinda stuff.