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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I admire this man:

Also, my partner tells me that I should include this in my profile: I once made Orson Scott Card listen to rap.
He was pretty cool about it, but it wasn't his style. Not exactly shocking, I suppose.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been working a new job at one of the larger tech industry employers in the area, here, for about a year now. I'm so so so excited about it. I've spent two and a bit years before that building an engineering skill set at a job I didn't really enjoy, and this new one offers me a chance to use those skills on really neato stuff. Now I can say "oh, what do I do for a living? I keep The Cloud cool..."
When I'm not working, I do many things in varying degrees of nerdiness. I go to board game nights with my buddies, play some D&D now and again, shoot some pool, play some poker, cook things, read, play around with computers, go barhopping, and sing karaoke when I get the chance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
When it comes to spoonerisms, man,
I'm totally slick.
As if compelled to like ballpoints,
I gotta dig Bic.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deep voice? I get some comments on it because it's a little incongruous with how silly I can be, I think. My voice is built for gravitas, not for talking about my upcoming The Fox costume.

Or my hat, if I'm wearing one. I have lots. Some are very silly, some are mildly silly, some are quite formal, and some are informal. The common thread among them, though, is that they're all snazzy. ^_~
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I dunno about *six* things, but, if I leave the house without my wallet, my cell phone, or my keys, I feel naked.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether the popularity of teratogenic adolescent terrapin assassins was a harbinger of the internet's coming trochee fixation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently, it's usually been some sort of social activity with my friends, a motley crew of queers and programmers. It's been mostly a mix of bars (especially gay ones), dancing (again, gay), house parties, and so on and so forth. It's a bland-sounding response, I guess, but I don't find the experiences to be so. ::shrug:: I suppose it depends on whom you're doing such things with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, here's some things that're hard for me to admit I've never seen:

Gattaca, Donnie Darko, Reservoir Dogs, Dogma, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Farscape, Red Dwarf, Amazing Spiderman 2, Iron Man 3, SW The Clone Wars, Original BSG, the last 2 seasons of newer BSG, anything past the first season of Buffy, any anime less than 7 years old, and 97% of things with the words "Star Trek" in their titles...

So, uh, lemme know if you wanna help fix any of that or something.
You should message me if
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you think I seem interesting? I guess that's self-evident. I'm pretty low-key and non-serious about this kind of thing, so don't stress. You get huge, huge points in general if you message me first, too. ^_^ Straight girls hardly ever do that on here; it's pretty cool when it happens.
I should probably say that I'm in a polyamorous relationship or two at the moment, so that might be a dealbreaker for some people. One person I'm seeing is KarmaCreature - check them out! If you don't know about these kinds of relationships and are curious, I'd be happy to talk to you about it, but I have absolutely no interest in trying to convince anyone it's right for them. Nobody can say that for anyone else; it's disrespectful and condescending.
Most people I've talked to about it seem to assume that it's a choice motivated by hedonism or some kind of emotional immaturity. While I enjoy a good bout of hedonism now and again, I wouldn't say it's a driving force in my life; in fact, I'd say pursuing the wisdom maturity brings has been far more of a driving force. It's tough to tell from the inside if you're "emotionally mature" or "wise," but I think I do okay.
Also, I guess I should mention that while, in principle, I'm perfectly happy to exchange infinity messages with you, until I actually meet you in person I won't believe you're not a robot or a hyperintelligent canine alien.