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31 M Saint Paul, MN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:10am
White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am currently in a happy transition from the confines of graduate school to normal life. Which makes me very happy.

I think I would be best described as a person who likes experiencing life directly and with passion. I like to find that in multiple ways across life. Not always in obvious ways as I like finding new ways to love life in small things as well as big ones. I think humor is the best force in life to stay sane and healthy outside of actual medicine. I am a creative person in the form of storytelling and like to write or story tell. I believe that the creative process brings out the best in me and while in grad school found out how bad it is for me to ignore this.

I am seeking someone with a similar bend (creative in some form) who wants to be an equal partner in life if things work out. I'm seeking a more long term relationship but not afraid to take it slow at first. I'm looking for someone that as well has goals and passion of their own in life. Most of all I'm looking for someone who I have fun with.
What I’m doing with my life
Been working full time for a year in mental health. Working on my counselor license for about 6 of those months. Looking forward to moving on to doing more therapy in the future. Spending time with friends and family too is a major thing for me.
I’m really good at
-exploring new places
-finding new aspects and sides to a person/place
-finding romantic moments for a variety of surprises
-a decent hand at giving massages
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really have read only a few books lately but some old favorites are: Brave New World, Life of Pi, Scholar of Decay, Vampire of the Mist, just about anything by Jackie Cassandra, Rumi poetry is a recent favorite

Movies are easier: American Beauty, In Dreams, Ravenous, District 9, Love Actually, Koyaaniquatsi, Shaun of the Dead, Zardoz, Omega Man, Wristcutters: a Love Story, all sorts. Mainly if its good or entertaining I'll most likely like it

Musical tastes are all over the place with focus on rock, alternative rock and rap, alot of movie musical scores to help with inspiration for stories I'm writing.

Food is Italian, seafood and mexican
The six things I could never do without
books, computer, writing, friday night fun, empathy, kindness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the impact I am making on the world, the fate of humanity, how I can help it with my career choice, also less serious stuff like how fun this firday will be and what will I do this weekend
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my friends, sometimes I might as well go out with friends. Sometimes hanging out with family as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not sure what to write, other than just ask I'm fairly open guy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like geeky stuff and don't mind being silly. I guess I'm not entirely goofy but I mostly am. I guess another thing that would be cool is if your not afraid to experience new things. Not anything too far but if you like seeing what's over the next hill or like to discover new things and ideas. It might be cool if you don't mind a guy who is a bit cuddly as well. Just message me if you think we might have interesting conversations and times together.