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29 Kagoshima, Japan Man


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  • Ages 18-30
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My personality type is INFP, I find it's pretty accurate as well!

This site is actually pretty amazing, I've been meeting some excellent people!
Hello all, hope you're well. Well, I'm not your ordinary guy, while most guys would claim that, I have proof!
I'm not afraid of baring my emotions at all.
I truly feel that one should say what one means. Always. There should be no, well he or she said This but that could mean That This or Something entirely unrelated to This or That. Life is simply too short for games such as these.
I'm a psychology major and understand the problems society has with men in general, and the impositions that it thrusts upon them. Emotions should be expressed, not suppressed or fabricated. If you see a rose, perfect, unblemished and it tugs at your very core, you should react accordingly; be you man, woman, child, or dolphin.
I'm pretty well educated, and I agree with Mill that that isn't something I should hold over anyone's head. I believe that because I was given this special opportunity, I should use it not only to the betterment of myself, but also all those I come in contact with.
Admittedly, that does come off as condescending but I think it comes from that part of me that really does want to help others.
I have some odd interests, I like anime but only certain ones, I'm fascinated by Japanese culture, and the language, it sings so beautifully to me.
I like to think of myself as an open book, if you ask I'll tell you, I might tell you even if you don't ask.
I'm working on improving myself every day. I understand that not all my traits are ideal and that personality, although partially static, does have room for growth in positive directions.
Well, that's me in a nutshell. More below!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently a full-time senior Japanese major at the University of Memphis. That is pretty much all I'm doing at the moment. After that I want to either do research, teach, be a counselor of some type or open a practice.

I truly wish to do something in this world other than stockpile "stuff". I reject the western capitalist system and its "Grow up, school, work till you die" mentality. There is more to life than getting more toys than your neighbor.

I feel that I've an obligation to those around me to make life better. Not just for me, but for everyone. Helping others shows that you value more than your net worth. It shows that you believe in people, you believe that the downtrodden deserve that hand you extend to help them succeed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would say I'm good at being a solid friend. I don't make waves, as a general rule. Very few things that people do make me honestly angry. I'm really good at school. I absorb information really well. I'm also good at being patient, I think I have a disease that's the opposite of ADD, in which I can stare at paint drying and find some fun in it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, the first thing people notice about me is that I am black, but do not act like any black person that they have ever seen. They also notice I lack a southern accent or even a hint of one although I was born and raised in the heart of the south, I've been asked many times where I'm from, ha!
Also, people notice I'm a very quiet soul. Introverted, and rather timid. That isn't to say I can never be loud, I can. The thing is when I am it isn't who I really am. An example would be that I love public speaking, because it gives me an opportunity to be loud and boisterous, but that's only actor me, not real me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a fantasy novel person. I enjoy being swept away into magical lands, following deep mysterious romances.. Some actual titles, The Sword of Truth Series, Dune, Tolkien's works, A Wrinkle In Time, the NIMH books, to name just a few.
I like hero movies, in general. Like The Matrix, V for Vendetta, all the comic book movies. Also in this category goes all the Disney movies I love, Aladdin, Hercules,well, The Little Mermaid too, although it isn't truly a hero movie.
As for my Anime Interests, FLCL, Trigun, Death Note, Cowboy Bebop. Samurai Shamploo, Wolf's Rain, Read or Die, Outlaw Star,Big O, Sailor Moon, Betterman, Inuyasha... (There's more but that's a pretty representative sample.)

I also love the childhood series I grew up with, things like Tiny Toons, The Gummy Bears, Darkwing Duck, Ducktales, Quack Attack, and 90s Nick in general: Are You Afraid of the Dark, Double Dare, What Would You Do?, Figure It Out, Legends of the Hidden Temple, Invader Zim, and my favorite show from then The Angry Beavers. They just don't make good TV anymore. Well, aside from my favorite show nowadays, Heroes. I have recently gotten into House and more into Law and Order, basically all versions, but especially S.V.U. and Criminal Intent. Due to the prompting of a friend I started watching and subsequently became irreversibly addicted to Doctor Who and Torchwood. If you're a fellow Whovian, we need to talk!

In terms of music I have very eclectic tastes. I don't subscribe to liking solely one genre. I like songs, not genres, not even bands really. I like some of The Hush Sound--- thanks to hagglespinbinuk for introducing me to them!, My Chemical Romance,Gavin DeGraw, Daft Punk, Avenged Sevenfold, Blink-182(Welcome back, Blink!!), Panic at the Disco, and System of a Down. Recently rediscovered Captain Jack. He was one of my favorite people ever. This isn't a full list at all. Well, actually, there is a genre that I like more often than not, and that's J-pop, or J-rock. Mainly because I love how Japanese sings, it mesmerizes me.
Favorite foods, well, I also have eclectic tastes when it comes to foods. I enjoy traditional southern "soul food" dishes, with the exception of chitlins...bleh. I'll try almost anything when it comes to food, well, except oysters, those are icky.

Me gusta anime. Es verdad.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
0. God 1. Truth 2. Technology in general 3. Creativity 4. People 5. Family 6. Friends
This was the most empty spot on the profile so I decided to put this here. I cannot do without hope and this song, as well as being beautiful, sums up my feelings about a lot of things...
Dreams to dream in the dark of the night
When the world goes wrong, I can still make it right
I can see so far in my dreams
I'll follow my dreams
Until they come true.

Come with me, you will see what I mean,
There's a world inside no one else ever sees.
You will go so far in my dreams,
Somewhere in my dreams,
Your dreams will come true.

There is a star waiting to guide us
Shining inside us when we close our eyes!

Don’t let go, if you stay close to me
In my dreams tonight, you will see what I see
Dreams to dream, as near as can be
Inside you and me, that always come true.

-Dreams to Dream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I tend to over analyze situations, psych myself out. But in general, I think about random things, like how nice it would be to live being rich in a castle in Great Britain. I also think about how nice it would be to travel the world.

I think about the things people go through in a day. Some things are fun, some are tough, some make no sense at all. But, when you have someone in your corner; someone who is willing to give you that pep talk when life just threw you a southpaw sucker punch and you're having trouble discerning the ceiling from the is a little less terrible. Life is best shared.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Memorizing Kanji. I tend to read, or play video games. Actually, as of late I've been into simpler stuff. Older games, like Saga Frontier, the original Kingdom Hearts.

That isn't to say I wouldn't like to catch a movie, or a Broadway show. I've always wanted to see Wicked, Jekyll and Hyde and Les Misérables.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really enjoy swings. You know, like the ones in playgrounds. I don't know what it is about them, but I just really enjoy swinging with a friend.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you see we have any common interests, or even if we don't, perhaps you like something I didn't mention. I enjoy meeting new people regardless. Be you 40 miles away or 4000, this world is full of possibilities. Who am I to limit what can be?