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49 M Saint Paul, MN

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English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Something witty? Something sweet? How to bring about a desire to meet?

Fortunate to have been able to enjoy the beauty of the Earth both from above, and on the ground so often while I was flying the Boeing 727 airliner before my super profitable airline suddenly closed when the parent company merged. People who rarely take vacations out of the country are missing out. To actually watch a Pit Viper taking a nap on a huge leaf in Costa Rica, take a canopy tour above a tropical rainforest, watch a feisty Praying Mantis repeatedly throw punches towards me when I moved too close (have pictures), and listen to a live mariachi band while eating a great meal in Cozumel is so satisfying! To play peek a boo with a lobster I named Marvin (four days in a row and I'm not sure which one of us had more fun) - he would repeatedly very slowly walk out of his cave, carefully peer / peek around the corner, then suddenly jump straight up in the water when he saw me, and scurry back inside, reminding me of Charlie Chaplin as he quickly scampered, and I still swear he was smiling. To see the Panama Canal and all these things in person is as they say, priceless. I've flown over the Grand Canyon over a thousand times, and it always remained breathtaking.

Firmly believe laughter is the best medicine. I once made a female airline pilot sitting next to me in the cabin laugh so hard (both of us in uniform), she wet her pants while snorting after a flight attendant walked up asking if she needed assistance. Apparently, from behind the laughter looked as though she was having a seizure, and the snorting made the attendant think she couldn't breathe! The pilot then whispered into my ear "I just wet my pants"! That started another laughter cycle. Worse yet, she then requested I look at her posterior and the airplane seat as she leaned forward so I could see how wet things looked. After sitting back against the seat, she asked how things looked. Being truthful, I emphatically said quite good! Then we both cracked up yet again.

I'm supportive of human and animal rights. Yes, we do need to care about both our people, and those in other countries. I have little tolerance for those who abuse women, children and animals.

What are we doing to the environment of this planet of ours? Stop the insanity! Sorry to be so offensive to any Republicans reading this.

Often am involved with home improvement projects (mine and others). Finally finished my complete kitchen redo including knocking out a wall, installing the wood floor (no laminate for me), cabinets, plumbing, and electrical...did everything myself except for the granite counter tops. Somewhat an Italian theme with two tumbled marble murals, one Venice, the other the Amalfi Coast with spotlights. The pride of doing something yourself and then appreciating the aesthetics seem to be a lost art for many this day in age.
What I’m doing with my life
Thinking positive thoughts while crossing my fingers in cyberspace between breaks of attempting to make copious quantities of lemonade. My brand new contact lens scratched my eye in October, 2011 (small scratch), a drop of chlorinated tap water touched my eye, and I've been in a battle since then (nasty bugger Acanthamoeba and I lost my career because of it). I'm still laughing and enjoying life!
I’m really good at
Home improvement / fixing things / making things.
Weighing factors and making decisions.
Giving massages and having deep two way conversations.
Quick wit (often quite dry, although the female pilot might not agree with this description). I love seeing delayed reactions!
Coming up with outside the box solutions is a major strength.
Having empathy and helping others.
The first things people usually notice about me
My deep voice, politeness, good grammar, blue eyes, and white teeth. For some reason, both men and women like to pat me on the back, shoulders, and chest. I'm not quite sure why they feel compelled to do this. Maybe I have a good tone? I take it as a compliment towards my character. Yes, if you must, you may. For some reason, people, and especially tough guys accidentally let slip out nick names for me such as Toddmeister, Toddling, Toddler, and most embarrassing for them, Toddie. Most humorous is that my name is Fred. Not really.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Have you ever read The Secret? It would be great if what it says is even halfway true! Just read Second Chance - wow, what a concept! Currently reading The Three-Minute Meditator. I'm becoming more interested in meditation and would like to begin to explore yoga. Care to give some instruction or learn together? Recently read Journey of Souls; it's quite the interesting book.

I really enjoy movies! Favorites: Shawshank Redemption, What Dreams May Come, Frequency, Meet Joe Black, Green Card, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Somewhere in Time, The Natural, Love Actually, Goodwill Hunting, the Bourne series, Office Space, Groundhog Day, Forest Gump, Serendipity, What About Bob, Stuck on You, The Truman Show, Dumb and Dumber, Bedazzled. Lately, I've been watching more independent, low budget films on streaming Netflix, and am really enjoying them. So refreshingly simple, yet powerful.

TV: Criminal Minds, The Big Bang Theory, do it yourself shows. The Twilight Zone, favorite episode: To Serve Man followed by Kick the Can.

Favorite foods: Ethiopian, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese, Nepalese, Italian.

I'm passionate about music: Spanish / Mediterranean acoustic guitar is my favorite. For online and radio, I tend to listen to alternative - the Current (89.3), classical, and world (Pandora). I do enjoy a wide variety of music, and have a nicely sized collection, from Sinatra to Morrissey, to Bocelli (ahhh, what a superb natural voice, without the irritating, overdone vibrato I'm supposed to enjoy). I also seem to have an affinity for one hit wonders, usually from the 80's and sometimes the 90's. Ever listen to Jamaican trance music?

Happy Festivus everyone, and don't forget to give to the Human Fund!
The six things I could never do without
Soft sheets.
Cuddling. Well, I guess I am doing okay without it.
Tea - iced, green, sweet, lemonade, and raspberry.
My two boys, Frank and Vince (cats). They are always in a good mood...quite different from others you may have charming.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophical questions such as what is the meaning of life? What happens to our consciousness after we die? Will she say yes?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will give you two since I guess most guys don't answer this one.
I wink at myself in the mirror once in a while.
Brace for this one. My forearms smell great! I've been asked a good number of times what my cologne is called when I haven't had any on.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–51
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You also wink at yourself in the mirror on occasion (or maybe for some strange reason, suddenly decided to try it). You have a twinkle in your eye. You are sincere, nice with spice, and don't play non-entertaining games. You are not persnickety. You have a lot to give, and hope to find someone who will actually enjoy reciprocating. What can I do for you?! You realize that while life alone can be good, it is better with the right person. You don't mind being thought of and treated as an equal. Sweetness, giggles, and unexpected snorts are all welcome. Republicans need not apply (sorry, it's a morals thing - I'm not self-centered, don't worship money, and would no longer be able to wink at myself in the mirror). Preference for animal lovers who eat an ethically based diet, or if you have been considering it. Every animal wants to live, and death is not a fun activity. Message if after reading this chapter, you are still with me, and hear a little voice saying I wonder or what if? Wait a second, how often do you hear voices in your head?

P.S. Apparently, you are an avid reader. Congratulations, you made it all the way to the end! For your sake, I hope all guys don't write this much!