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50 Saint Paul, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–51
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Fortunate to have been able to enjoy the beauty of the Earth both from above, and on the ground so often while I was flying the Boeing 727 airliner before my super profitable airline suddenly closed when the parent company merged. People who rarely take vacations out of the country are missing out. To actually watch a Pit Viper taking a nap on a huge leaf in Costa Rica, take a canopy tour above a tropical rainforest, watch a feisty Praying Mantis repeatedly throw punches towards me when I moved too close (have pictures), and listen to a live mariachi band while eating a great meal in Cozumel is so satisfying! To play peek a boo with a lobster I named Marvin (four days in a row and I'm not sure which one of us had more fun) - he would repeatedly very slowly walk out of his cave, carefully peer / peek around the corner, then suddenly jump straight up in the water when he saw me, and scurry back inside, reminding me of Charlie Chaplin as he quickly scampered, and I still swear he was smiling. To see the Panama Canal and all these things in person is as they say, priceless. I've flown over the Grand Canyon more than a thousand times, and it always remained breathtaking.
What I’m doing with my life
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Thinking positive thoughts while crossing my fingers in cyberspace between breaks of attempting to make copious quantities of lemonade.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Home improvement / fixing things / making things.
Weighing factors and making decisions.
Giving massages and having deep two way conversations.
Quick wit. I love seeing delayed reactions!
Coming up with outside the box solutions is a major strength.
Having empathy and helping others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deep voice, politeness, good grammar, blue eyes, and white teeth. For some reason, both men and women like to pat me on the back, shoulders, and chest. I'm not quite sure why they feel compelled to do this. Maybe I have a good tone?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Have you ever read The Secret? It would be great if what it says is even halfway true! Just read Second Chance - wow, what a concept! Recently read Journey of Souls; it's quite the interesting book. I'm becoming more interested in meditation. Do you have any pointers?

I really enjoy movies! Favorites: Shawshank Redemption, What Dreams May Come, Frequency, Meet Joe Black, Green Card, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Somewhere in Time, The Natural, Love Actually, Goodwill Hunting, the Bourne series, Office Space, Groundhog Day, Forest Gump, Serendipity, What About Bob, Stuck on You, The Truman Show, Dumb and Dumber, Bedazzled. Lately, I've been watching more independent, low budget films on streaming Netflix, and am really enjoying them. So refreshingly simple, yet powerful.

TV: Criminal Minds, The Big Bang Theory, do it yourself shows. The Twilight Zone.

Favorite foods: Ethiopian, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese, Nepalese, Italian.

I love music! I need music! Spanish / Mediterranean acoustic guitar is my favorite. For online and radio, I tend to listen to alternative - the Current (89.3), classical, and world (Pandora). I do enjoy a wide variety of music, and seem to have an affinity for one hit wonders, usually from the 80's and sometimes the 90's. Ever listen to Reggae trance music?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Soft sheets.
Cuddling. Well, I guess I am doing okay without it.
Tea - iced, green, sweet, lemonade, and raspberry.
My two boys, Frank and Vince (cats). They are always in a good mood...quite different from others you may have charming.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophical questions such as what is the meaning of life? What happens to our consciousness after we die?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wink at myself in the mirror once in a while.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You also wink at yourself in the mirror on occasion (or maybe for some strange reason, suddenly decided to try it). You have a twinkle in your eye. You are sincere, nice with spice, and don't play non-entertaining games. You are not persnickety. You have a lot to give, and hope to find someone who will actually enjoy reciprocating. What can I do for you? Yes, I'm being serious. You realize that while life alone can be good, it is better with the right person. You don't mind being thought of and treated as an equal. Sweetness, giggles, and unexpected snorts are all welcome. Republicans need not apply (sorry, it's a morals thing - I'm not self-centered, don't worship money, and would no longer be able to wink at myself in the mirror). Preference for animal lovers who eat an ethically based diet, or if you have been considering it. Message if after reading this chapter, you are still with me, and hear a little voice saying I wonder or what if? Wait a second, how often do you hear voices in your head?