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  • Ages 21–32
  • Located anywhere
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My details

Last online
Sep 1
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm Mar: vegan, musician, traveler, daydreamer.

I can try to describe myself, but I think Vonnegut says it better for me:

I want to stand as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all the kinds of things you can't see from the center.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying psychology and music at Berkeley- I'm really hoping to explore the biological basis of physical and emotional connections through music, memory in particular. Lots of music therapy volunteer work, and working to get into clinical Neuropsych in the future- just trying to save the world like everyone else?

Someday I'd like to buy a taco truck and travel the world- I backpacked, train hopped , and couchsurfed my way through Europe over the summer for 7 weeks with my trusty guitar. Always up to plan more adventures in the future, I can be your Ferdinand and you my wayward girl
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making soup out of all the leftover veggies I have from the week. It's a talent, really ;p
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mostly read books with covers, British comedies are my favorite (I haven't owned a tv for a few years now), I love all the junkiest-healthiest-cruelty-free food, and I'm open to all mediums of sound and rhythm.

My favorites right now:
Oliver Sacks, Sam Harris, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Tolkein (currently reading through LOTR), and the book The Disaster Artist
The IT Crowd, An Idiot Abroad, Game of Thrones, Avatar the Last Airbender
Anything I can smother with Louisiana-style hot sauce
I really like the movies Persepolis, Amelie, Paprika, and Waking Life (although Wizard People, Dear Reader had me laughing harder than I ever have at a movie)
My favorite band is The Dodos, however I only recently discovered the wonders of Explosions In The Sky, Kaki King, and The Bombay Royale
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-E string
-A string
-D string
-G string
-B string
-and one more E string to bring it around townnnnn
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Ways to live more consciously.
-What day to day life is like living with a split corpus callosum.
-When I'm going to buy a one-way ticket somewhere
-And of course how strange it is to be anything at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Before I moved up here from SoCal, I spent a lot of time planning hikes and adventures. Sometimes I would drive out to the desert with just my guitar and have nights to myself. I miss that..

These days, I'm probably kickin' it with a glass of home-made brew while I paint or study, usually while I listen to an Alan Watts lecture on the nature of consciousness. That's pretty standard for me on my free days..
You should message me if
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You'd like to get lost with me somewhere, go to a museum, make some music, suggest a book you think I'd like, go to a show or on a hike, or ideally do something we've both never done before!

One last thought, although I am mostly attracted to women, I consider myself pansexual and am open to lovin' all genders and people- as long as the intellectual chemistry is there ;p