We can either live a selfish existence focused on what we can get out of the world or we have a selfless existence focused on what we can give to the world. When I look at the people around me I realize that each of them is fighting a private battle and I should do all that I can to make that fight easier.
Every day I try to do a random act of kindness. I strive communicate in a way that is kind, honest, and helpful. I realize that the energy I put out in the world effects other people beyond my immediate sphere.
I practice radical honesty, am a pacifist, and don't believe that any living thing should suffer for my benefit.
So goal for being on this site is to meet people I can connect with on a deeper level or to do things with be it coffee, movies, hiking, archery, and what not. While I'm willing and able to do those things by myself it just seems to be more fun when you have someone with you to talk to. Except maybe the movies... but getting thrown out of an establishment is always more fun when you have a friend.
While something like marriage and the like are probably the farthest things from my mind right now I still do have a lot to offer another person in the way of friendship and long term casual dating partner. I'm not looking to fall in love but am not shutting the door on it.