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28 M Hamden, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:14pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I'm just looking for to meet some people to share a few laughs maybe a few drinks. A good conversation at the least. After that we can go from there. Anything else you want to know can be much more accurately expressed through conversation. I feel like my circle of friends is too small. Manifest destiny, broadening horizons, blah blah blah. That picture isn't the most recent, more will be put up once I figure out how to do that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do alot of freelance writing, system administration consultant work, and contracting. I work all the time (another reason for OkC). Oh, and I bartend in milford. I play music in New Haven whenever I get the chance and I go see live music alot. I'm not much of a "type this all out on a website" kind of guy, but it would be a good conversation to have if you're interested.
I’m really good at
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Not much. So, I suppose, modesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'd probably have to ask them. Can't say that comes up in conversation too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Edgar Allan Poe, Samuel Johnson, James Joyce, Mark Twain, Ernest Hemmingway, Hunter S. Thompson, Stephen King, Robert Shea and Robert Anton Wilsons Illuminatus is my favorite book. I could go on with authors I read a crazy amount.
Movies: I generally like older movies, Woody Allen movies, Mel Brooks movies, I like a lot of comedies. Francis Ford Coppola or Oliver Stone, Scorsese movies I love too. Scorsese's concert movies are the best. I could probably go on about that as well.
TV: Walking Dead, Falling Skies, I like that Moonshiners show (I think I use to drink with Tickle when I lived in VA). I don't watch a lot of TV. If I do its usually like science shows. Through the Wormhole with Morgan Freeman, baddest show ever.
Music: I'm a musician I listen to everything from HipHop to Metal from Jazz to Bluegrass. I'll include a few artists, but really this could go on and on and on so I'll be brief. Grateful Dead, Van Morrison, The Band, Old Crow Medicine Show, Del McCoury, Steve Martin, Yonder Mtn. String Band, String Cheese Incident, Deicide, Tool, DethKlok, Mastadon, PanFUCKINGtera, Miles Davis, Chick Corea, Stanley Clarke, Albert King, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Jimi Hendrix, Townes Van Zandt, Hot Tuna, Bela Fleck, Pearl Jam, Neil Young and Crazy Horse, Joe Cocker and the Maddogs and the Englishmen, Jurassic 5, Tribe Called Quest, Gangstar, Wu-Tang, Black Sheep, Digable Planets....and so on and so on.
There's more to the picture here, but you'll have to ask to find out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, Imagination, Indoor plumbing, Music, Humor, Good times
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend alot of time thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Live music or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I believe in the Bokonist proverb "Unusual travel suggestions are dancing lessons from God," and I want to be a good Dancer.
You should message me if
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I'm going to safely assume most women on here are so jaded from the bombardment of creepy ass dudes. But, if you are sick of that, shoot me a message.