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47 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 11, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Open relationship
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have an adorable wife that I live with named Jen who is jayhy here. I am also bi. This means I am a polyamorous guy looking for a man to date long term. If you are a guy, then ask me questions, be honest, and hopefully communication will flow. I like to rollerblade once a month, bowl once a week, soccer 4 times a week, bicycle whenever, badminton randomly, tennis twice a year, diving board, work out, drive new places, and watch dvd movies too. We don't have to have 100% in common to email me, but living in King County helps out a lot. *smile*

Other things off the top of my head ??? Hmmmm... well, I like tinkering with software and looking at all the menu doohickys and bells and whistles. I went one whole day with a chocolate chip stuck to my ear. Funny how no one told me it was there and I didn't even notice it in the mirror. *shrug* I also have a forgetfulness trait, so hopefully that won't bother you too much. Anyway, that is all the quirks I can think of at the moment ... oh wait, I am a two sneezer.. Have a good day today. (^:

I am optimistic, negative, and silly.
What I’m doing with my life
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Once a week I volunteer online. Helping people research their family tree. This is really rewarding as people get really emotional and excited at finding new family and cousins they did not know they could find. Some people are really shocked that the federal records go back to the 1790's. I take archive photos for people in King County especially if the person lives far away. Fun detective work! (^:

I work as an aide for handicapped people in the Seattle area. (^: I help three people at the moment.

Lots of events happening. I organize them. If you want to mini golf, play soccer, roller blade, snow shoe, or play tennis, then let me know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking of ideas. Procrastinating. Organizing group events. Fixing software. Walking on my hands. Putting stickers on things. Giving little gifts. Massaging. Spring board diving. Scrabble. Eating. Working out. And some German board games.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Brown eyes with vanilla bean flecks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a)Authors: Robert Silverberg, Mercedes Lackey, Frances Trollope, Vonda McIntyre, Marge Piercy, John Steinbeck, Bruce Stirling, Anne Rice, Carl Hiaasen, Paul Theroux, David Brin...and any books like "The Eyre Affair". b)Movies/TV are fun, but don't compare to books. I enjoy LOtR, Princess Bride, 5th Element, I Heart Huckabees, House of Flying Daggers, Galaxy Quest, Harry Potter, A Japanese Story, Limbo, Paprika, Ten Canoes, X-Men, Alien, Alien VS Predator, Matrix, The Lorax, Farscape, Simpsons, Spartacus, True Blood, Heroes, Dexter, Six Feet Under, Scrubs, etc... c)Music is beautiful for the most part. I don't really have a favorite, but if forced to choose, then I'd choose trance/goa music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Choices, clean clothes, kind words, caresses from non-strangers, healthy foods except healthy waffles, and a warm bed with someone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out on a date or watching dvds or surfing the web or gardening. I tried to keep up my google calendar, but I let it lapse. Paper calendars are best for me. *smile* If you have any ideas for a Seattle Friday night, then feel free to send them my way, you should not keep your favorite spots to yourself, then they will most likely wither and fade from lack of attendance, doncha think ? Every so often, I drive by such and such a street and voila, my favorite sushi place or dance club is gone, torn down, or is now a f*&^ing Starbucks. (Please raise your fist and yell loudly if you think we have enough of those in Seattle!!) Sorry for the rant, but I'll let you rant as much as I rant as that is good manners. (^:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have two tattoos & two birth marks (aka freckle conventions). (^:
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your caps lock is off.