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30 M Bethpage, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 9:38am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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-I'm a chiropractor by trade, educator at heart. Not mutually exclusive.
-My major in undergrad was Philosophy, Politics, and Law, with a minor in Theater (acting mostly, but I got into it via piano-playing).
-I am ruggedly optimistic.
-I find women are prettier without make-up
-Sometimes I draw to pass the time.
-Characteristics I admire in people are shared by Walt Disney, Steve Jobs, Jim Henson, Elon Musk, and other entrepreneurial visionaries.
-I can be quite silly.
-I'm the I ffspring of a Catholic-schooled father and a Jewish-heritaged (if that's a word) mother. I have no strong religious affiliation, but a strong sense of spirit and moral character, and the it's humbling to think about what we still don't know about this world.
-I live with integrity.
-I would say I'm smarter than your average bear.
-I answered those multiple choice questions on this site many months ago, so some of my answers may have changed. Too many questions to go through and check.
What I’m doing with my life
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Gearing up for my first foray into the chiropractic profession.
I’m really good at
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-seeing the picture from all angles
-playing the piano
-mentoring/advising (I prefer working with kids--so much potential)
-puzzles, of EVERY kind
-throwing a frisbee
-creating spreadsheets
-trying new things with an open mind
-punning (I've even done it unintentionally, believe it or not)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: the philosopher Ken Wilber and futurist Alvin Toffler. Also I read "New York" and "London" by Edward Rutherfurd, which is historical fiction. Short stories of science fiction/fantasy. I give away copies of The Secret (Rhonda Byrne) to those who are ready to become a little more empowered. Washington feels like he's written just for me--content, tone, mood, diction. Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortensen reflects a great deal of my own passions and values. And I have common bonds with Robert Louis Stevenson, which makes his works that much more enjoyable.
Movies: I don't laud any particular movie, but a random sample includes the Sergio Leone triologies, Disney, solid action flicks (Bourne Identity, Batman Begins, etc., not the shoot-em-up kind), Christmas movies galore (when appropriate), thinkers (Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind, Being John Malkovich). Movies that are just well done, regardless of content.
TV: Sundays are NFL days. MLB isn't bad either.
I'd rather spend my time doing something more productive than movies/tv.
Movies: The great ones still move me, whether it's jazz or classical. And electronic also has found a special place (though definitely different from the others) in my ears.
Food: I've been doing the whole gluten-free/dairy-free thing for awhile now. I've developed an appreciation for some good barbecue, and I enjoy Japanese food, Jewish food, comfort food, among others. Can't quite develop a taste for Indian food for some reason.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A piano readily available for those inspired moments
-Human interaction
-At least one goal to work toward (long- or short-term)
-Close, loving family
-A sense of limitlessness, personally and for the rest of world
-A warm, cozy bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who's on first and What's on second.

And also where we are now and how we got here, because that informs us about where we're going. This applies to many things, like astronomy, anthropology, biology, technology, economy, government, and everything else!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner out, billiards, Jeopardy!, riding around town, movies--the usual. Bars and clubs? No thanks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd say the prize for biggest willingness-to-talk-about-it:number-of-people-that-know-about-it ratio goes to... collection of back covers of December issues of National Geographic magazine from the mid-1900s--the ones with the full-page Santa Coca-Cola ads on one side and a different product ad on the other.

It's like the epitome of everything that was the United States of America during its most powerful and influential era: Coca-Cola, Christmas, advertising, industry, the nuclear family, model trains, consumerism, the list goes on. It's a cool way to have a piece of history, I think.

It's not that I keep it a secret, it just rarely comes up in conversation.
You should message me if
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I appeal to you--and you appeal to me.
You want to get to know me with the intention of meeting not far into the future, preferably with an activity in mind.
You create art for fun.
You would be indifferent to a prohibition revival.
You like to have wide-ranging conversations.
You have no expectations.