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30 • Westfield, IN • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 17
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly anything
- Not at all
- Other, and laughing about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has a kid, and wants more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Basically what it means is that I like hearing about new things, and I try to keep an open mind when I do.
I'm also polyamorous, so hopefully you're okay with that (either for friendship or dating). I do have two girlfriends. They are also on the site, and you can view their profiles at IndigoRielle and kayem-o-matic.
Please know that I tend not to send a message unless we both like each other. It seems like otherwise, I send a message and never get a response.
Though if I'm wearing my kilt, it's usually that.
The Xanth Series
The X-Wing Series
The Myth Series
Frankenstein (the original)
Several random Disney movies (the Pixar ones in particular tend to be very good)
The Avengers (and their associated movies)
Definitely, Maybe (frame narratives are a favorite)
Irish Folk/punk music (The Pogues, The High Kings, The Dubliners, etc.)
J-Pop/J-Rock (Ayumi, Gackt)
Classical and instrumental
Gaming (preferably pencil and paper, but a good video game is nice too)
Reading (I think I would go mad)
And for the cop out answers because I can't think of anything else:
Earth to stand on
Or you just enjoy chatting or asking questions.
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