I'm not sure what I'm looking for (if I was, I would have cloned him from a test-tube by now), but I suppose it runs along the lines of meaningful companionship, some shared interests, and enjoyable sex.
I think the people who complain that it's hard to write this section are really saying: "I'm afraid of being judged for who I am." Somewhere between my Bar Mitzvah and my coming out, I lost that fear. I can't say I miss it, much.
I dream of meeting my next lover somewhere random/casual, like a clothing store, coffee shop, etc. & having a good story to tell the future kids that I’ll never have. But I don’t live in a sitcom, so here I am. Get at me