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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 12:20pm
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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"Well and then I set out to become what I became... "
Or to put it another way: "I was born and then I grew up."

I can be very extroverted and loud, the middle of the party. The man in the long black coat running about with the bottle of Jameson in his hand. I can be one of the quiet ones who sat in the corner as the wheels of legion turned amid pomp and circumstance. I don't have to be either in any given situation. I am very loyal to my friends and family. I read a lot and remember history. I hope it can be said that peoples lives were made better for knowing me and that I returned goodness with good, and so to was my sense of justice and retribution unfailing. I cannot judge whether I have succeeded or failed in this life in these things. Only you people can do that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Well I work in government IT for $$$, I write (mostly prose and verse these days), I was from 2009 to 2012 very sick after being poisoned by someone dumping toxins in a river I was exposed to. Nearly died from it 4 times but I have been healed for the most part. I now continue the process of being renewed as I have heard it called. I like the outside and I love the music that is the laughter of people I love. I like to create good memories so they can become stories to be shared later. I am further pursuing getting back into music again and also traveling the world a bit as I once did.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Operating under duress or adversity. The way I got it figured is under extreme stress you can either laugh, tell a joke and keep going or you can cry and crap your pants. I've seen some terrible things life and been through some too, but I keep going. I'm good as listening and finding sometimes unconventional ways around difficult situations. I'm told I am a good cook. I would rather be wanted than needed. I don't need anyone to solve my problems or live my life for me. Rather, I would like someone to walk the road with.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes (im not sure why) that I have a dark sense of humor.
I am told I have an intense personality and its noticed when I enter a room. Its hard to gauge what others notice really as you never really can tell how you look through other people's eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - It's easier as I read a large amount to list what I have been reading lately or re-reading - A Song of Fire and Ice, Cicero,
Neuromancer, Lord of the Rings and the Hobbit, The Tank in Attack, Rediscovering Atlantis.

Movies - I don't go to the movies often as I more enjoy Netflix or the like - I enjoy mostly old black and white, classic horror, some fantasy and scifi. My favorite movie though is Gone With the Wind.

Food - Well I love to cook for me but mostly for other people. Being single doesn't provide that opportunity as often as I would like. I enjoy Italian, Japanese and your face mostly. :)

Check your head not your television.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The people I love and am responsible for
Books to read
Your Mom ;)
The music of Johnny Cash
A cold ale and a tall whiskey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the dreams I have mean during the rare times I sleep. I also think about what the next adventure will be in a lifelong string of adventures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Its possible I am:
Relaxing with friends
Arriving, Raising Hell, then Leaving.
Reading quietly at home with wine.
Road tripping to who knows where.
Waiting for you to turn around ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask for knowledge and ye met yet receive it. :)
You should message me if
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You are somewhat eccentric yourself and understand there is more than black and white in this world. If you are looking for a friend first since all things that come after must have a basis in trust and friendship. If you don't take OKStupid too seriously and have a sense of humor... I am in no rush. :)