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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 31-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 22, 2014
5' 8" (1.73m)
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My self-summary
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I'm a funny and creative person who gets a big kick out of life. Honesty, sincere, passionate, warm, with a terrific sense of humor are some of my qualities. I write for a living and also write for myself. I wake up every morning with enthusiasm and great expectations. I would describe myself as having an unconventional personality. I'm well read. Film and art are my passions.

People have said I am awesome. A few have had have slightly different opinions--but they come around!

I value friendship. I believe in love.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love what I do. I'm in advertising and it's still for me one of the greatest joys in my life. It keeps me vital. I'm also writing my own work. I finished a 279 page memoir. At this moment, I'm sending it out and waiting for the rejection notes to come in--and that holy acceptance note, too.

I am fostering a 4lb 3 oz min pin named Mouse.

I am very proud of how I maneuver my cart through the 14th St Trader Joes. It's all strategy and just the right amount of aggression.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Choosing clothes that fit, jaywalking, typing. (100 words per minute, baby.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Energy. personality, new york accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh, this is the tough one. I've read so many books and have seen so many films. I went to film school. I'm not much of a fan of many films that are out now. Some. But I do like Italian films, French films, classic, comedy...I have low culture and high culture tastes. I like Mob films, naturally Godfather I and II (and love it when I see people here never putting III in.), Sexy Beast, loved Pino, love Goddard and Bunuel, Fellini, just saw Il Sorpasso with Vittorio Gassman and that had a cool 60's vibe, Antononioni--all the films that make me look pretentious here. I'm not a big fan of Spielberg--hate Woody Allen, think he's a wannabe french film auteur. Some independent films. I'm on the celluloid side of the digital versus celluloid argument.

Books: I read mostly non fiction. But I do enjoy literary works. I have low and high culture tastes here, too I read a lot of mob books and World War II books, but also lots of art books and biographies. Almost every book published on film, if it doesn't feel like a re-tread. Bukowski. Love Leonard Cohen's poems. Etc, many...

As for music, again, very eclectic. It has to have some R&B soul and swing. I'm really into rockabilly right now and love going to Otto's Shrunken Head on 14th St when the cool Japanese guys hold Rebel Night--rockabilly has a lot of American history in it. But I also listen and moved to Gospel, blues, rock, old school hip hop and some new school hip hop if it has a good hook and isn't overproduced. I appreciate jazz but it doesn't reach me physically. I like to feel the music and love to move to it. So whatever does that, I'm in.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Lap top.
Answers for these questions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The wonder of it all. Life and someone to share it with. Funny and poetical New York City.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know, I guess I should write a blog for this question.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Oh, that's where the fun comes in.
You should message me if
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If you're looking for a cool guy and open to see if love sparks.