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49 Fairfax, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Leo, and it matters a lot
Working on space camp
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
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Has kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Be yourself, everyone else is taken"
-Oscar Wilde

I'm in Fairfax (not to be confused with Fairfield) which is a very nice little town in Marin just over the Golden Gate bridge from SF.
Born in NYC (Brooklyn, NY) raised in Santa Cruz and lived most of my life in the Haight/Ashbury district of San Francisco.
I spend a good amount of time in Berkeley...which I can't seem to get out of my system.
Two kids, 5 & 7, which dictate my schedule...
Love road trips and adventures!

"If you end up with a boring miserable life because you listened to your mom, your dad, your teacher, your priest, or some guy on television telling you how to do your shit, then you deserve it."
-Frank Zappa
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wondering why I wasted so much time in the rat race chasing meaningless things.
I'm now focused on enjoying life from the perspective of "what am I going to be glad I did when I look back on it all?"
I'm always up for a crazy, impulsive adventure!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Surviving, self sufficiency, making the best of life, living outside of the mainstream, cool biz ventures, ideas!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Jeez, I don't know...ask them!
I think I stand out in a good way to some...not so good to others...I guess standing out is good?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
That's a long list...I'll have to add more later...
Fight club, dark city, Donny Darko, Forbidden Zone, Gummo, Phantom of the Paradise, trippy science & history documentaries, Ancient Aliens, True Romance.
Don't watch TV much, but Breaking Bad kinda kicks butt! Sons of Anarchy got me hooked.
power of now, Be Here Now, Genesis Code, & all those weird books on the pyramids, Aliens, Mayans, etc!
Music; Syd Barret, Clash, Bob Dylan, Chrome, Air, Fleetwood Mac, ELO, Spiritualized, Led Zep, Bauhaus, 70's AM gold, Atari Teenage Riot, Dolly Parton, George Harrison, Tricky, Gordon Lightfoot..long list of musical interest!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, my Boston Terrier Otis, my van, my experiences that made me who I am now, San Francisco (although I now prefer Berkeley...thanks dot com billionaires), my Freedom...only six?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is there a difference between maturity & domestication?
Thought & manifestation. How to stay free of the traps in life, how to enjoy the here and now. The Sumerian texts. How did people on this planet get so damn crazy?
Why do we see identical images in both microscopes and telescopes...yep!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Glad I'm not out with the 9 to 5ers, and dedicating myself to a quality of life & awareness outside of the machine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd better get off of okcupid...this could get addictive, and that's not exactly why I'm here...
You should message me if
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You're head over heels smitten, and can resist no longer!
And if the questions okcupid asks on registration don't hold a lot of weight. The act of answering them implies uptight on many levels. I'm not uptight! I don't have a picture of my dream girl painted in my mind...that's fantasy! What you think & hope someone will be, never matches reality...and that's not necessarily a bad thing! Chemistry upon getting to know someone is what it's all about!