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39 Bethany, OK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–43
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 9, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
...I've found the love of my life... but I'm still on this site, because it's a great place to meet like minds... particularly if the idea of living in an intentional community sits well with you. If you're still interested, read on...
Well, it seems utterly ridiculous to summarize one's self in a box; considering we are infinite-stardust-light-beings... but I'll give it crack. To summarize... I'm making it up as I go, and so is everyone else... weaving the dream, so to speak. I do believe that the most important thing in life is to seize the moment, as we never really know how many we will have in this incarnation.

I am always expanding my knowledge about anything and everything that interests me, which is a constantly changing gestalt. I'm an inventor, and am manifesting the monetary benefits which go along with that; but am grounded enough to generate income through more traditional means until it does. I'm a musician, artist, and generally think the "norm" sucks the big one. My life revolves around my 6 year old daughter (as it should imo).

Anyhow, in the interest of succinctness, I'll leave it at that... other than an important caveat: I lean philosophically towards a paradigm that embraces "ethical polyamory." In other words, I think it's possible to have loving and supportive relationships with more than one person at a time. It seems rather limiting to confine one's notions of romantic love to the standard model, imo. I’m experiencing a blissful, over the top, amazing, out of this world mental/spiritual/ and emotional connection which never ceases to amaze me, at the moment... with a goddess... Little-Wing who happens to live in Greece... We’re working on connecting; and in fact are searching for our “extended family” of fellow artists, musicians, free-souls, creators of their own reality. We’re polyamorous, but my heart's very filled with her love, so at this point I'm honestly looking more to connect with kind souls to co-create community space... perhaps with some eco-conscious, poly type people =)

I tend to view life as a quantum field of endless variation; and don't feel the need to constrain definitions and experiences based on societal norms. Perhaps a better way of saying what I feel is this: Love is infinite, takes on infinite forms, and what we should all be doing is seeking our bliss in the Here and Now through raw, unbridled, experience!!! grasping the "golden-goblet-of-glee," saying "fuck you" to fear and attachment, and just going for it. If it makes you happy, it's right... as long as it harms on one else, right?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going through some changes... Figuring out the monetary game, the happiness game, etc. I'm a human "be-ing..."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
tweaking systems to optimum performance.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's never the "first" thing, but I've got a split in my left thumb at the last joint. I've discovered several creative uses for this appendage, lol. I've got a slight advantage playing pool due to a serendipitously located fulcrum...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jazz, foreign films, Issac Asimov (anything he's ever written, but I like his hard-science the best actually)
-I'm a "dead-head." Ie: I love the Grateful Dead. the music and philosophy of the late 60's counter-culture has such a positive vibe for me. Peace, Love, good stewardship of the planet, etc. resonate very deeply with my soul.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The weak force, The strong force, electromagnetic fields, opposing like charges, attractive opposite charges... and, probably "Consciousness" itself... that's the big one =0
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How we're all seemingly existing in the "physical realm" through our common biological hardware. If we had no sensory input at all, would we know we existed?
Oh, and cold-fusion... and negative resistors, and super-conductivity, etc. etc. etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends... I LOOOVE live music; playing it, seeing it. Especially improvisational stuff. Also good films, art, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Foreign accents, especially European... knock my socks off =o Also, sciencey/ artsy girls make me melt.
You should message me if
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You enjoy mental stimulation, are artistically inclined and enjoy nature and "bohemian-esque" adventures and vibrations =) I embrace my eccentricities full-tilt-boogie; and resonate best with a quick wit, active mind-scape, and overall irreverent soul. Also, if you resonate with tantric harmonics... please please, good mademoiselle, hit me up so we can craft magikal-dream-scapes-of-love-light-vibrations in the HOLY MOMENT OF NOW =) Basically... if you're a snark-tastic mama with a fine-tuned synaptic-network... Repondez s'il vous plait =o There's either chemistry, or there's not. The only way to know is to hang out, right? N' also, I respond to most messages. I'm always open to new friends, etc.