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UhuralovesSpock

52 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've got a big heart and a big smile and a big appetite for life. I'm looking for a balance between intimacy and solitude. I'm affectionate and playful, a hopeful romantic with a wild side!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an author and former college professor. I'm the Office Manager of a martial arts academy. I've been divorced for six years and have spent that time building my writing career and dating. I am ready for love. I know that lots of people save all year (or a lifetime) for 2 weeks in the Bay Area, so I get out and don't take this beautiful place for granted!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My great-grandmother taught me to cook. I speak languages in addition to English. I have a beautiful singing voice. I know how to laugh. I grew up with 7 brothers so there ain't a sport I can't play. I am wide open to trying things I've never done before.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warm and open smile. My muscles. My ready laugh. People seem instantly comfortable around me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books: When and Where I Enter by Paula Giddings, Written on the Body by Jeannette Winterson, Daughters of a Coral Dawn by Katherine V. Forrest, Imago by Octavia Butler, Friday by Robert Heinlein, Thereafter Johnnie by Carolivia Herron, Sula by Toni Morrison, The Daughter of Time by Josephine Tey, Artists in Crime by Ngaio Marsh, The Vampire Tapestry by Suzy McKee Charnas, Dracula by Bram Stoker, A Foot in Each World by Leanita McClain, The Price of the Ticket by James Baldwin.

Movie: The Long Kiss Goodnight, Brave, Young Frankenstein,

TV: Sleepy Hollow, Bones, Big Bang Theory, Person of Interest, Elementary, Poirot, Style by Jury, Neat, Classical Arts TV, Sports (except Nascar and NHL, Bull-Riding and Poker - which isn't a sport)
ST:TNG & DS9, West Wing, Columbo, Dexter, True Blood
My taste in music is eclectic: Mozart to Marley, Ella to Everclear, Scarlatti to Indigo Girls.
I will try any food once, but I'm a wimp when it comes to spicy food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something purple on my person.
At least one good friend.
A 4-legged in my life.
Laughter on a daily basis.
Passion.
Books.
Tea of all kinds from all over the planet. (And the streak of mischief in me that has me writing 8 things!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better Sister, Aunt, Friend. What I need in a partner and what I have to give to the right person. The two books I'm currently working on. The next book after those. Finding someplace unknown to explore. Where is live music playing this week?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I am off my day job on Fridays, I spend the day writing and by 5 or 6, I'm ready to turn the computer off and find some human contact. That can mean contacting a friend for dinner, or finding a live music venue, or inviting someone I know who has a dog to let me tag along on their walk!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 38–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You smile more than you frown, purr more than you bark, and know how to laugh at yourself.

You wanna invite me on a good, old-fashioned date.

If you are married, I am not interested.