This is probably more like random facts about me than a self-summary, but I guess it does the trick :)
I'm a 25 years old student from Helsinki, though actually my roots are in the Ostrobothnia. I find it very difficult to fit in one genre, I'm a little bit of everything. I have red dreads but I don't smoke pot or listen to reggae. I'm also not a vegan, quite the opposite :D If I had to pick a genre (though I hate doing so) I'd probably say I'm a some kind of geek :)
One word to describe me would be "nice". I'm always kind to people, try to take everyone into consideration and rarely get angry. I like to make people happy, because it makes me happy. This causes problems sometimes, I have a tendency to get dissapointed in relationships when people don't get that they should do nice things for me too and not try to take advantage of me.
Intellect and talent attracts me. People who are good at maths or physics or know a lot about computers etc. fascinate me, because that's just something I can't wrap my head around. It really bugs me I can't understand how numbers work - I've tried but it's no use. I also really appreciate music, books and arts, though I'm not a creator myself, just a consumer!
Career-wise I have things sorted out. I know what I want to do with my life and I'm in the Uni to achieve it. In my social life I'm still looking for the person to spend my life with. I'm not looking for casual sex or one night stands, I'm a relationships kind of girl. I'd call myself a bi with a preference, which means I'm not opposed to relationships with girls, but I prefer guys. Mostly for the one simple reason that starting a family one day is hell-of-a-lot easier with a guy than with a girl, and that's something I'll definitely want to do. And I like being "the girl" in the relationship, I like to feel protected and small at times.
I think it's important partners have their own life outside the relationship. I like to do things with my boyfriend, but I also like to hang with my friends every now and then. And if the guy want's to go to a bar "to have a few" sometimes, that's all fine by me, I even think it's healthy for the relationship. I think it's important partners take care of each other and discuss things openly. This is the reason why trust is very important to me, and though I'm usually quite forgiving, it might be difficult to gain my trust if you lost it once.
I like to laugh and think I have a pretty good sense of humour. I enjoy sarcasm and puns, and my whole family is kind of sarcastic in our communication. I've seen some dark times in my life and I think that's why I'm able to joke about even the most serious things in life. But I don't like humor that hurts anyone.
On the whole, cruelty and violence in general makes me depressed, and I try to stay away from situations that could expose me to it unless there's something I can do to make it better. I think I'm quite the idealist but I have my feet on the ground and realize the facts. It doesn't stop me from dreaming, though :) If I could decide, world would be all rainbows and unicorns :P
How's that for a random rambling? :D Please feel free to contact me if you read something you want to discuss further. Though, as I said at the beginning, I'm not looking for anyone at the moment. The forementioned "dark times" caught up with me again and I don't feel I'd be a very good girlfriend to anyone at the moment when I'm sorting my own life out.