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Un_expected

48 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 30
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay), Hindi (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I approach everything as a chance to play, explore, and find unexpected combinations. This approach applies to how I read and think, how I engage when I am out doing things, how I eat, and how I connect with people. I'm a fairly typical INTP, sometimes an aloof observer, but with a strong E streak.

I like to go see bands play live, or go to galleries and museums. I eat and hang out with friends when I am out, and read, a lot, when I have free time at home. I love oceans, forests and deserts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment, slowly chewing through my energy and patience in consulting, and in the background hatching plans for my next incarnation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rigorous thinking in parallel with massive intuition. Crystalline prose.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually, first, that I am very engaged, but quite hard to read. After that, my twisted sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Proust, Wordsworth, Plotinus, Heidegger.
Movies: Mulholland Drive, Inland Empire, Dogville, L'Avventura, Rosemary's Baby.
Shows: Community, American Horror Story, Mary Hartman Mary Hartman.
Music: Cabaret Voltaire, Throbbing Gristle, Laibach, Crash Worship, Portishead, Peaches, ADULT., Klaxons, Litte Dragon, YACHT.
Food: Indian, Thai, Ethiopian. Typically like very spicy. Nearly vegan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books
Cats
Music
Thinking
Nature
Compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being, Classical civilizations, animals, texts
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably at home reading and winding down after too long of a week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can offer no facts about myself that require this particular variety of ironic distance.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're creative, adventurous, intelligent, and kind.