I'm in a place where I really want to fall in love, and I prefer a guy who's big enough to make me feel lithe and feminine.
I recently realized that I basically wear my heart on my sleeve in a lot of ways, and want someone who does the same. Happy go lucky types who keep everything inside and don't know how to express their feelings need not apply.
Dating is a terrible way to find out if you are interested in or compatible with someone else. There are lucky exceptions, but generally you need to be someone who's willing to get to know me, I sometimes open up fast socially, but I don't really believe in instant "sparks" as a good indicator of a sound romantic future. It takes TIME to feel romantically cozy. Such persistence has paid off in the past, so it would seem I respond well the pressureless time to get to know someone.
I'm looking for a geeky*~ guy with a high emotional IQ (can easily and openly communicate their thoughts and feelings,understands how and when to dole out sympathy, and appreciates sympathy himself), who wants to engage in some projects and pursuits with me sometimes, who likes to give an receive a good amount of attention. Also one who enjoys all the fun things between kissing and sex.
Right now I'm really enjoying the sound of rain that just picked up outside, and also I really like to bike in the rain when it's warm enough out. :-)
I'm consistently on the cusp with Meyers-Briggs. I feel like it says a lot more about who you think you are than who you actually are. I get ENFP and INTP the most.
*~ smart, creative, into science, math, technology, making, maybe stuff like board games and probably into some media geeks tend to enjoy too, but I'm not a (video) gamer, and don't particularly want one. Playing video games SOMETIMES is ok though, and I could be up for joining in on some of that.