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Uncertain_Heart

27 / M / Bisexual / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:26am
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Born in the Himalayas, raised by tigers, Mad scientist... not really. I'm a New Yorker, chill dude and King of Film Nerdery. Also, professional food eater.

I love traveling and exploration, I've been to few places around the world and still have a lots more to go to. (Travel buddy anyone?)

I'm into checking out bands, museums, chilling in the park, beer gardens, photobooths, instagrams, watching a movie matinee, crif dogs...

...eating at diners in the morning after a long night, free summer concerts, checking out missed connections, reading Dan Savage, used books stores and all that good stuff...

I like good conversations, general silliness, thinking out of the box, putting things to work, experimenting, playing with fire sometimes (not literal fire, the metaphorical kind) and I love hanging out with my friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Working in film and television production. I'm a freelance camera guy/assistant. I work mainly behind the camera, setting up shots and lugging gear around. Most days I'm in New York and some rare days I get to travel and that's cool.

I try to keep creative, so when I'm not working in film/tv I'm working on my other friends' projects, taking photos and what not.
I’m really good at
I'm a pretty good conversationist, I like to make small tall from time to time, I know quite a bit about art history and science so that makes me a pretty good date at the museum.

I'm a good listener most of the time, I'm a little deaf of hearing from going to too many loud concerts but whatever.

I'm also pretty good at making lists... Which means this website is perfect for me.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shoulders and knees.

I guess people point out the way I dress. Which I think is a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is just a taste of what I like. I think it's more important to actually discover the other person's likes through actual conversation.

Books: American Gods by Neil Gaiman, Sphere by Michael Crichton, The Shining by Stephen King, anything by Norwegian cartoonist Jason & The Wind Up Bird Chronicles by Haruki Murakami.

Movies: Lawrence of Arabia, Paris Je T'aime, My Blueberry Nights, Girl 6 & Lady Vengeance.

Music: Norah Jones, M83, Daft Punk, Fiona Apple, Prince, Radiohead, Grizzly Bear, The Clash, Black Sheep, The Kills, Pavement & Santigold.

TV: Futurama, Adventure Time, Deadwood, Rescue Me, Millenium...

Food: Almost anything. I'm used to eating Vietnamese/Chinese all the time.
The six things I could never do without
My music collection.
A blank piece of paper and a pen or pencil. But preferably a pen.
My sister.
Movies, sometimes I live on them... Sad, but true.
My inner thoughts. They're just as important as my best friends. Sometimes, you comfort yourself with the thought that only you matter.
A camera. Gotta capture that Kodak moment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That period between Summer and Fall in NYC. (It's the best time to go out and do stuff)
Movie theaters (I love the experience and I make it a point to visit at least once or twice a month.)
Girls/Guys on bikes (yes i know, It's a weird turn on.)
Who's touring this year (Gotta see me some live music!)
My nephew (he's the most important thing in the world to me)
Which one of my friends are free to chill (cause they're cool like that.)
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm probably at work, at a bar with friends or home watching a movie. My Fridays usually depend on my uncertain work scheduling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Would be for me to know and for you to find out.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
Online dating isn't something I'm taking too seriously. I would much rather meet people in person. I believe in physical attraction as much as intellectual attraction.

Message me if you'd like to go hang out at a quiet and divey bar or walk around the city and get to know each other better.