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20 Arlington, VA Trans Woman, Non-binary

Trans Woman, Non-binary

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:19pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), German (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First things first: I am a trans woman. I'm proud of that. I'm looking for some folks to spend time with. Maybe something comes of it. Maybe not.

This is a non-sequitur; so are opossoms. I enjoy making rants about my special interests. I like brackets (as should be obvious [but may not be {but on second thought, this series of parenthetical statements probably makes obvious}]). I try to respect just about everyone; I like to think that every person is a decent person in general. This website is determined to prove me wrong.

I spend much of my time either reading or watching films; I also enjoy drawing. I am horrible at painting. I used to have a lot of books, but since I moved from FL I have about three. I wish I had more.

I haaaate lying. I won't lie unless it's absolutely necessary to preserve my safety or someone else's. I don't like it when others lie and I won't tolerate people who lie often. I'm not trying to be judgmental, that's just a remnant of some issues I used to have.

Also, fnord.

I'm polyamorous.

I have a stutter, and it's really embarrassing. If we meet, *please* don't comment on it. I also walk with a cane; I can walk without it, but it's excruciatingly painful and I only did it for a long time because my parents convinced me as a kid that I should just power through the pain.

In other news, school is about to begin, and with it, the reign of the Great Old Ones, come to devour our souls and destroy humanity in an orgy of sex, violence, and insanity. Film at eleven.

Some of my questions may have somewhat problematic answers, and I'm working on fixing those. I made this profile three years ago and I've learned a LOT since then.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running away from abusive relationships! Wheeeeeeee
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Physics, writing, reading, public speaking, being what psychiatrists call a 'low functioning' autistic person. Also video games, playing about, cooking, and eating. I am SO good at eating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I... honestly have no idea. Probably that I'm either really cute, probably moving my hands in a weird way, or both.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Iain M. Banks, Tolkien, Vonnegut, what little I have read of José Lois Borges, Neil Gaiman, Deborah Teramis Christian, Oscar Wilde, sometimes Allan Moore and others who I will write up here when I remember.

Movies: Dark City, The Seventh Seal, Metropolis (Fritz Lang, not the anime, I didn't like the anime much at all), There Will Be Blood, Hellboy, The Avengers, Casablanca, everything by Pixar that I have seen so far, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy, Love Actually, The Thing, and others which I will think of later.

Shows: Doctor Who and Mystery Science Theater 3000. Also 'The Crystal Maze'. And Avatar.

Food: Lamb vindaloo. If you buy me lamb vindaloo, you've bought your way into my pants. You think I'm joking? Try it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, books, music, beauty, philosophy, people, and counting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell I'm gonna be doing next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably playing Guild Wars 2 or something. I don't have too much to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing I'm willing to admit is that I was once emotionally abusive to a partner. I am deeply ashamed of this and it has shaped a lot of how I treat people anymore.
You should message me if
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You are interested in anything I'm looking for. Also if you have a lot of knowledge of physics that you're willing to share! (No, seriously, I love that subject.) Or if you're a trans woman who wants to cuddle, because I am SO okay with that.

You aren't scared of evil feminist ladies.

You're gonna buy me lamb vindaloo. Seriously sweet mother of god I love that stuff.

(BTW if I don't respond for some time it's because I might feel overwhelmed and not be able to talk for a while, I'm sorry.)