I am Curious, Optimistic, and Chivalrous.
My Self-Summary
The hardest part of these things is where to start for me; the
second hardest part is not where to stop, but stopping period to be
honest. Every time I start writing and get on a roll it takes an
act of congress and a meteor strike to stop me ha ha. Well here we
go. *flexes fingers* I'm 24 years old, brown hair, brown eyes, and
one of the most unique people you could ever meet. I have feelings;
care about others'; and not afraid to be myself even if i have to
break a few stereotypes: in fact sometimes just to break them ha
ha. I am very easy to please and enjoy almost any activity you can
think of as long as I share it with friends or family; as I'm very
adaptable and love
experiencing new things
most of all. On my own free time I
read quite a bit(anything that captures my
interest; vague but I'm just that eclectic, same with music) or
trolling the internet for facts and fun. So seeing that this is a
"summary"; I suppose that about sums it up for now(beware my love
for
puns; can't help
it I swear). I won't put "ask me if you want to know more" cause
I'm sure you will if you want to...wait..does that still count as
putting it?*scratches head* :-D damn me..ha ha. My sense of humor
can be quite random but at least it's always present, and putting
smiles on others' faces can really make my day as I think about how
much better that person's day will be and who they may pass it on
to, creating a chain of good feelings and positive attitudes.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working part time so I can watch my nephew for my
sister, and he is quite the handful at 3 yrs. old; and yet it's
also one of the most rewarding times in my life so far. When he
goes to day care in a couple months I can concentrate on my current
goal of learning to bartend and have the awesome job of serving
drinks with finesse and talking/meeting with so many people. It's
sort of like my old dream of
psychologist(which may be rekindled
one day),but less personal and taxing and just about as enjoyable.
I’m really good at
Being funny and making others laugh and/or cheering them up. Though
I prefer to stay out of my friends and families bigger problems
cause I believe in
personal responsibility
and learning from mistakes, I can't refuse them if they need
someone to talk to or want advice; so it's fair to say I'm really
good at diffusing situations and guiding others assuming they take
my advice. Anything intellectual or meta physical I can grasp
easily and conversations never seem to suffer. Talking and
listening are also some of my best skills and I can and will go for
hours if my interest is piqued.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically seems to be my eyes I guess; or my smile so I've been
told. My eyes have a sparkle and my smile lights up a room and
people seem drawn to my warm nature.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Hmm...To not draw this out a simple list will do.
Books: Thomas Covenant saga; The catcher in the rye; Hitchhikers
guide to the galaxy; Bully; Most true life books as well.
Movies: The Truman show; TMNT 1 & 2; Talladega Nights; Quentin
Tarantino flicks; Most Indie flicks; and most other comedies or
movies that will get you thinking.
Music: Literally anything as long as it has a beat or
catchy/thoughtful lyrics. There's a much bigger chance I will at
least like it or tolerate it then changing the track or
station.
Food: Chicken and dumplings; Pizza; Mint chocolate chip ice cream;
and I'm just not that picky to be honest.
The six things I could never do without
My phone
The internet
Books
Friends/family
Love
Myself
Not necessarily in that order as a heads up if you're wondering.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I'm going to spend my day or the next one to reach my goals and
have fun at the same time. After that it's usually just me being
random and either coming up with ideas/inventions or just
reflecting on the happenings of the past and present; whether
personal or random worldly and unworldly concepts. I can be
surprisingly deep and simple all in one day or even one
conversation/thought process.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends which can be anything from a few beers and
games; a party or BBQ; or even a quiet night playing with my nephew
and enjoying some relaxing family time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
That's almost hard to think about because I'm always an open book
regardless, but if I have to pick it it would be have to be my
greatest fear, cause that's usually pretty close to the heart in
some way:
I'm always the optimist, but the only shadow I can never shake is
the fear of being alone in this world without my own significant
other; cause I have so much to share and give and I've always found
it a shame nice guys finish last. The only relief my optimism ever
gave me was my answer to that horrible stereotype: "At least we
finish what we start" :)
You should message me if
You like a sense of humor and enjoy smiling and laughing;
Want to meet one of the "elusive" last "nice" guys around;
Are looking for a serious relationship after building a strong
friendship and rapport; I've been searching for love for a while
and have a great idea of what I want and an understanding of
compromise and teamwork to make a relationship last.
You can do those last two comments without head games or drama(so
sick of high school seeping into our adult world). I've never been
a fan of games or leading people on, and I expect to be treated as
well as I treat others.
Also as a side note for politeness: if you message me I promise to
write back, even if for the sole reason of letting you know I'm not
interested and I'd hope for the same thing. I just figure it's only
right to let the person know instead of no reply at all; after all,
they spent the time to write you, and it takes no time at all to be
honest and respectful.