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44 M Cincinnati, OH

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I can totally understand finding oneself in a Life place where you're genuinely awesome, but still "looking". For me, it's been mostly about traveling around the country for too long with my work--a trend I'm finally putting an end to. A job that involves travel is often an exciting lifestyle, but not very conducive to creating a fulfilling, committed relationship. I have finally settled in one place with the express purpose of making that Relationship the priority, and opening the door to the Right Woman in my life.

For me, that woman would be Caucasian, between 35-45 years old, Petite/5'6" or under, and Slender. She would also have most of what I consider to be the top ten most important qualities in a woman:

1) Intelligence
2) Wit / Humor / Funny
3) Feminine / Passionate / Romantic / Sensual
4) Affectionate / Emotional / Nurturing / Giver
5) Committed / Faithful / Priority on Fidelity
6) Good Conversationalist / Communicator
7) Priority on Good Health / Fitness
8) Desire to Travel / Share Adventures
9) Maturity / Honesty / No Games
10) Loves animals

...And, of course, a Relationship ALWAYS needs that vital element of "Chemistry".

I'm also a firm believer that deep, honest communication is essential in a relationship. If you can't talk--you can't love. So if you're with me, expect to hear what I'm feeling. Know it will always be the TRUTH. And know I will never settle for less from you.

Physically, I've been told I resemble a unique cross between Michael J. Fox, David Duchovny, and a young Henry Winkler. I think I just look like me. I tend to feel most like myself when wearing a well-trimmed beard (as in several of my photos here), but I'm always happy to shave to accommodate the preferences of my partner. Dig a little beyond the external, and I think you'll find intelligence, kindness, awesome family and friends, super high values, a strong sense of self, a compassionate sense of others, a tireless thirst for romance, and a passionate knowledge of what I want out of life. Also, dig as you might, you will not find a single moment of cheating, substance abuse, and honest to God...NO GAMES.

If you've read this far, I hope you will consider taking the next step to learn more. If you do, I can promise you one other thing: If we are lucky enough to find True Love together, you will never have to worry about me looking at another woman. I've waited a LONG time to find the Right Gal, because I never intend to want, need, or have another...
What I’m doing with my life
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Here's an idea of what I want my Life to be about:


It’s Sunday today, and we are grateful. It’s one of those rare days we haven’t had to set the alarm. We’re both passionate about our careers, and deeply fulfilled by them, but we’re always thankful for mornings like this, when we stir with that delicious feeling that we don’t have to be anywhere but with each other today.

You sleep a bit more, as I slip out of bed and sneak to the kitchen. I return soon with bagels, coffee, fresh fruit, and the paper. You sit up, surprised and giggling, asking what the occasion is. “It’s Sunday”, I answer, with the mutual understanding that we don’t need any more occasion than this to celebrate one another.

We eat leisurely in bed. You’re engrossed in one of several books you’re reading; I’m hard at work on the crossword, occasionally interrupting to ask your help with a clue. The phone rings. It’s our parents or that couple we love hanging out with. We check in with each other, finding that mutual slot in our schedules to visit with them later in the week. We feel surrounded by love. We are grateful.

It’s a gorgeous, sunny, breezy day. Today we plan to commune with God by reveling in the awesome Nature He has created for us.

Hand in hand, we walk to our favorite park. We make a beeline for our Special Tree by the water. We lay a blanket out, and open our picnic basket. The sun is warm on our backs. We catch grapes in our mouths, and toss peanuts to the squirrels. An enthusiastic dog runs over to meet us, demanding petting. We walk the length of the river, and turn onto our favorite trail for a hike. All the while we discuss life’s current challenges, and share perspectives on how to meet and conquer them. There is no one we trust more than each other. We are wiser and stronger together. We are Best Friends. We are grateful.

We walk an alternate way home so we can attend the local Art Fair. We admire the countless incarnations of creativity, and you model jewelry for my opinion. We stop at the market for a few things, and pick up a DVD at the video store. The sun is beginning to set now—and we stop to marvel at its orange glory, as we stroll the rest of the way home.

We’ve decided to make dinner together. I chop vegetables, as you go to work on the main course. I set the table, and open some wine. I turn on some relaxing music, pulling you into an impromptu dance, while the pasta is simmering. We sit and enjoy your impressive meal. I wash and you dry.

We take an hour for some leisurely business. You check your emails and call your best friend, while I finish the paper. We cue up the movie, and snuggle up on the couch. I massage your tired feet as we watch, until you shift your position to cuddle in under my arm. The movie has a happy ending, and you tease me because I’m crying. I say I’m not crying, there’s just something in my eye…I have a macho reputation to protect.

I turn down the bed while you soak in a hot bath. I turn on more low music as you emerge from the bathroom, and we dance in the dark for awhile. A full moon shines in at the window, bathing us in its light. We meet under the sheets again where we started the day. I surprise you by producing that groovy bracelet or pair of earrings you fancied at the Art Fair—a perfect touchstone of this idyllic day. I hold your lovely face in my hands, and whisper that all the years of waiting and wishing and believing were worth it. We have found one another at last. We meld together tenderly, naturally. We are one. We are fulfilled. We are grateful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning awesome vacations! Favorite local spots include: Salem, Massachusetts; Stratford, Canada; Vegas, Florida, and an awesome family cabin in Traverse City, Michigan.
International faves include Paris, Germany, and Scotland. I still need to see England, Wales, Italy, Greece; and EVERYWHERE tropical!
The first things people usually notice about me
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The word "swagger" has often been used...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite literature: Shakespeare, Cervantes, Neruda
Favorite music: 80's, Billy Joel, Journey, James Taylor, Sinatra
Favorite TV show: The West Wing
Favorite Dog Breeds: Beagles, Greyhounds
Favorite Film genres: Classics, Romantic Comedies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Any guy who doesn't write "sex" here is just lying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Travel adventures/road trips/vacations
Picnics/walks/nature hikes/beachwalks
Movie nights at the cinema
Movie nights at home w/popcorn
Game nights w/friends
Dinner out/cooking in
County fairs
Nostalgic activities like bowling, the Drive-In, Skateland
Coffee and crosswords on Sunday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I actually like a lot of "chick flicks" (oddly, this usually depends on the leading man--I suppose this is because I project myself into the stories, and feel that a "good representative" is important. For instance, Tom Hanks, GOOD, Tom Cruise, BAD; Colin Firth, GOOD, Colin Farrell, BAD; Christopher Reeve, GOOD, Keanu Reeves, BAD get the picture.)
You should message me if
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You possess all (or most) of the "top ten qualities" I listed above, and are ready for the romance of your life!