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32 M Oklahoma City, OK

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from high school
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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First a few things:

Since there's almost no Christians here, I don't expect much from this site. I'm probably not your knight in shining armor or Prince Charming either. I am open about imperfections and flaws. I've been run around by a lot of people doing this online dating thing so only contact me if you're mature, serious and looking for someone who doesn't expect perfection. If you're someone who's going to suddenly quit talking with no explanation then don't contact me either. Besides, most women on here look through guy's profiles as if they were shopping for shoes. Only concerned about superficial things anyway.

That said... Did you survive that first paragraph? Awesome! :)

There's a lot more than I can write here. I like photography, videography, OKC history. I sponsor a little girl in Lebanon through One Child Matters (Mission of Mercy). I enjoy Christian radio and some of my best friends are DJ's at The House FM. I volunteer to get into free concerts. ;) I used to collect autographed photos of Christian artists. I've met many of them. I'm a member of a OKC history group named RetroMetroOKC that meets every month. I can tell you any building that used to be downtown and have a few thousand old photos. I go to a historic church downtown. I've been told I'm a good writer and I've written a lot about my life on a blog. I also have a page about my testimony that's pretty long. My life is an open book. Anything you ever wanted to know about me is online if you looked. I really want to make up for my 20's in my 30's.

Matthew 10:29 - What is the price of two sparrows—one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.

Like many people, sometimes I've struggled with feeling like I've been abandoned or God is no longer concerned with my life and what I've been through. Whether I'll be alone for the rest of my life. It's a reminder that even the most mundane things like hair on my head are so well known and recognized.

Probably the biggest thing that impacted me was the Columbine shooting. I was a Junior in HS in '99. It's a long story but God really used the tragedy to devastate me and open my eyes to where I was in life. God used someone my age to show me what a real relationship with Him is like. Her name was Rachel Scott and her legacy impacted so many including me. I'll always have a deep desire to follow in her footsteps and finish my own race.
What I’m doing with my life
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For a job, I work full-time at Avis at the airport. I never had a clear idea of what to do after school so I never bothered spending all the money going to college. I went straight to work after I graduated.
For hobbies I do videography and photography mainly these days. About 8-9 years ago I got interested in photography and did a crash course on it. I usually learn by trying and doing things. In 2010 I got into videography and video cameras. I've documented the entire construction process of Devon Tower in downtown Oklahoma City. I started when it was around five stories tall. Some of my photos are featured in the official Devon Tower book by Steve Lackmeyer. I've experimented with time-lapse, which turned out great. As far as I know, I'm the only one who did documentary video of this type of Devon Tower in the city. The work has actually gotten a lot of attention, and I've talked to Devon employees, construction workers on site, and even the architect of the building asked for one of my photos for a presentation. I got to meet him afterwards.
I go to church most Sunday nights at Frontline downtown at the old First Christian Church building. When I was in school, I was the "artist guy". I could copy just about anything I saw but wasn't very good at doing my own work. I gave it up after I graduated.

I have Flickr, YouTube and Vimeo pages:

Article about me!
I’m really good at
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I'm a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm loyal and care about people. A good listener and accepting. I don't know what people think about me by appearance but not many people really take the time to know me. I guess I'm not your typical looking "Christian guy" that fits into the Prince Charming mold many people have. I'm not a cookie-cutter Christian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A lot of things.

Books: It's been a long time since I read a good book. I used to read a lot more years ago in school. Honestly, I would say Rachel's Tears though and the other books about Rachel Scott. She was a peer of mine, though I never knew her and her life has had a huge impact on me. It's a God thing and not some passing interest. The Chronicles of Narnia series were my favorites as a kid and had an impact on me in a real way. God used the spiritual themes in the book to go under my radar and show me how much I longed for God in my life and who Jesus is.

Shows: I like shows like Ghost Adventures, paranormal in general. Finding Bigfoot, Dirty Jobs, Duck Dynasty. I watch mostly History Channel, Travel Channel, Discovery, Syfy and A&E. Breaking Bad was awesome and I watch Walking Dead now.

Movies: I mostly like Action, Sci-fi and Fantasy. I only go to the big movies at the theaters and Redbox the rest.
Some of my favorites are The Crow (favorite), Gladiator, the super hero movies, Lord of the Rings, Fifth Element, and all the classic 80's movies I grew up with. The Goonies, Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, Never Ending Story.

Music: Flyleaf, Demon Hunter, Sanctus Real, RED, MIKESCHAIR, Newsboys, Praise & Worship etc. I grew up hearing Led Zeppelin, Def Leppard, Pink Floyd, Ozzy, Metallica. However, I make the choice to only surround myself with spiritually encouraging music.
I enjoy Christian radio. I was involved with The House FM in Ponca City for a number of years. They're all good friends of mine. I used to do video for them at concerts and events they put together.
I used to have a hobby of collecting signed autographs from Christian artists. I went to about a hundred concerts in the span of a few years. I've been burnt out on it for several years now, but I have a lot of cool stories because of it. I have two photo albums of signed 8x10 photos.

Food: I'm not too picky about food except probably anything seafood or sushi. I like to go out to eat with people. Usually I'll just get basic stuff at the store because I'm trying to save money.

Games: I grew up a gamer and have played video games most of my life. Had an NES when they came out and had most of the consoles up to the PS3. I got into PC games in the teens/20's. I'm not much of a console person these days. I've honestly tried to minimize how much time I spend on games. From a biblical viewpoint, they are total time wasters. Life is just too short to spend it on something so frivolous. I do sometimes get into the fantasy games that take a long time to finish like Diablo 3. I just get too burnt out after a while if I don't finish them.

Other facts:
I drive a 2014 Chevy Spark.
I wear contacts (but I would like to get some glasses so I don't have to wear them so much).
I'm a technology/gadget guy. I've owned every iPhone except the 4 and every iPad.
I have done P90X off and on the last few years. I lose my motivation pretty easily.
In February I picked photography back up again. I got a Canon 7D and have shot several thousand photos since then. I think I'm still more of a videography guy. Earlier in the year I got offered a job part-time photographing properties and construction for a prominent developer downtown. It was pretty fun while it lasted. I've also had offers to buy some of my photos. I could really use the extra income and actually getting paid to do what I enjoy.

My favorite place to travel to is Denver. I've thought of moving there off and on over the years but it usually doesn't work out. At this point I'm going to stay committed to Oklahoma City, my hometown and watch it grow and buildings go up. I'm looking forward to documenting it all.
I have some good friends in Denver though and the area is close to my heart. I always visit Rachel Scott's grave and leave flowers. The mountains are so mesmerizing coming from a flat state.

I've been on several mission trips. Ten years ago was the last one in Amsterdam. It was the first and only time I left the country.

Within the next two years, I'm planning on owning a brand new home. I'm excited about it but it will take a lot of hard work. I wish I could share the home with someone one day instead of living there alone. Only God knows for sure though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, friends, Internet, a computer...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My spiritual well-being and finally finding someone I can grow with and take care of. I've waited a long time for that. I think about how life is really short and that time is fleeting. I have a sense of urgency and wanting to make the most of my time in this life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work weekends... so I can't stay up late. Usually resting and watching my Friday shows. Then bed.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You're looking for someone who's not judgmental and far from perfect. I don't demand perfection from someone. If you're willing to give me a chance... :)

What I've needed for a very long time is a partner, physically and spiritually. Someone who knows me deeply and I can trust. Walking this path on my own all these years has been very difficult. I've been looking for someone I can work together with to build my own faith but also cherish and take care of. A person I can give but also receive the same back. Two people joining together could do more than one person alone. It has seemed though that the odds of finding that person is like one in a billion.

Someone I'm looking for:
Caring nature, affectionate, trusting and not judgmental. Forgiving. A good listener. Someone who is not concerned with this temporary world and the things in it. A person who longs to be more like Jesus and be His disciple. Someone who has a sense of humor and I can enjoy making them smile and laugh. I want to be able to open up and feel comfortable around them and not feel that I'm walking in a mine field and might say something wrong and push them away. I won't have high expectations that they can't live up to and I hope they would do the same for me. Hoping someone will give me a chance. I can only put so much on a profile.