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UniqPhreaq

27 / F / straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am unpredictable, unusual, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

I am intelligent, creative, sensitive and I have a rather odd sense of humor. A lot of my time is spent sleeping, reading, surfing the web, programming and playing WoW and table-top RPGs. I watch tv and movies, but I also watch a lot of internet videos these days. I enjoy webcomics as well, especially Order of the Stick, Misfile, Oh My Gods! and xkcd. I am way behind on Something Positive, but that's also a great comic. I collect quotes, so if you say something wacky it's bound to end up in my ever-growing quotes file. I often do random weird things just for the heck of it. I'm spiritual, I read tarot cards and horoscopes. I celebrate the equinoxes and other Sabbats. I tend to miss the Esbats, but I acknowledge the power of the universe as often as I can, so I think I'll probably be forgiven. I am interested in (equality) feminism, astrology, astronomy, art, science, history and lots of other nerdiness.

What I'm looking for: someone I can share this plane of existence we call life with. Someone strong, but not afraid to be a little vulnerable. Someone who can shore me up when I'm down, and accept my support when they need it. Someone who thinks outside the box. Someone who has at least some clue as to the definition of romance. Someone as odd as I am. Beyond that it's really all details. Don't sweat the small stuff!

Some words to describe me: friend, lover, counselor, muse, philosopher, writer, artist, nerd, geek, gamer, coder, thinker, worrier, dreamer, singer, reader, oracle, oddity, caretaker, listener, hippie. I'm sure I'll think of more, and probably pick up a few new ones from those around me, so I'll update the list as it comes to me.

What I’m doing with my life

I graduated college in '06 with my BS in Computer Sciences, specialty in Internet Information Systems, and a minor in Communications. After that I got the obligatory "after college job," then moved on. I've been working contract for a while, but the economy has hit me hard. Now I'm exploring some other options, but I'm not going to give up.

On my off time I write poetry and blogs, dabble in photography and digital art, and continue to work on my singing. This year I want to buy a guitar and learn how to play it so I can start writing my own music. I play as much Warcraft as I can fit into my busy schedule, but I'm not the type to put real life on hold so I can play, either.

I’m really good at

Procrastinating, singing, writing, making people smile, comforting people, showing affection, holding a conversation and generally pulling random information out of my @$$.

Avoiding talking on the phone. I despise that form of communication.

Developing web-based applications.

Reading Tarot.

Giving inspiration.

The first things people usually notice about me

I wear glasses.

I'm quiet (that's just until you get to know me, though).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books) Tir Alainn Trilogy by Anne Bishop, Daughters of Bast Trilogy by Sarah Isidore, feminist books, political books. Most recently I've been reading "The F-Word" (that's referring to Feminism, get your mind out of the gutter).

Movies) Serenity, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Spun, Legend, Krull, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Matrix, Moonstruck, Pirates of the Caribbean Trilogy, Queen of the Damned, Interview With The Vampire, Spaceballs, Robin Hood: Men In Tights, Final Fantasy VII: Advent Children, Princess Bride, Topper Returns, Reefer Madness and lots more. Mostly comedies. No scary movies, senseless realistic gore or war movies. I like to smile, not have nightmares.

TV) Law & Order (Regular and SVU), NCIS, Firefly, Mythbusters, Star Trek (Next Gen, DS:9 & Voyager), Family Guy, The Simpsons, That 70's Show, Antiques Roadshow, Last Comic Standing, Futurama, AFV, Nature Documentaries, Whose Line Is It Anyway?, Spongebob Squarepants, Iron Chef, Dinner: Impossible (w/ Robert Irvine. No offense to Chef Symon, but Irvine is da bomb), Supernatural, Charmed, X-Files, House M.D., The Mentalist and probably a few more I'm forgetting. If you've ever watched Underdog (the old cartoon not the crappy movie), you rock!

Music) Blind Guardian, Breaking Benjamin, Darren Hayes, Darude, Dave Matthews Band, Disturbed, The Doors, Drain STH, Enomine, Hoobastank, Janis Joplin, Korn, Linkin Park, Loreena McKennitt, Muse, Must, Pink Floyd, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sasha, Savage Garden, Slipknot, Stabbing Westward, Stone Sour, Sublime, System of a Down, Three Days Grace, Within Temptation, Godsmack and a bunch of really random songs. I also collect random techno.

Food) Chocolate, chicken stir fry, chicken fried rice, ice cream, Panera!

The six things I could never do without

1) Hot Showers
2) Chocolate
3) Music
4) The Internet
5) Time To Regroup
6) Physical Affection

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything and anything. Why relationships don't work out. What I'm hungry for. All the injustice in the world. Something I just read. Something I want to write. Something I coded. Something I just listened to. Something I just ate. Something someone said. Something someone did. Something I did. Something else.

On a typical Friday night I am

Every other week I play Forgotten Realms with a small group at my house. I have a Catfolk Barbarian that likes to drink and chase butterflies. Enemies and friends alike fear two things: her wrath and her sobriety (which tend to coincide, but Gods help you if you try to take her weapon).

On off weeks, who knows? Playing WoW, programming, building another new playlist, contemplating a few shots, taking a nap, hanging out with friends, eating an ice cream sundae, building a ship in a bottle with discarded toothpicks while standing on my head, eating raisins, staring at the wall, going out to dinner, who knows? Well maybe one of those isn't true. I mean, who eats raisins?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That I'll admit almost anything in private. :P

I really just don't know what to put here. Nothing is taboo with me.

You should message me if

You think you're my soul mate.
You think I'm your soul mate.
You think a lot in general.
You don't totally fit any label that could be applied to you.
You can wrap your mind around the contradiction that I have a degree in a Scientific field but believe in Tarot and Astrology.
The voices in your head told you to.
The Fates, Gods, or Furies told you to.
You use big words, but not superfluously.
You're really damned weird. I like weird.