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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:06pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
DISCLAIMER: I am not an A-list member and cant see who likes me so if you do please message me.

Hello to all of you lovely available men out there in the world. My name is Ernest. I am here ultimately looking to find someone I can connect with and hopefully one day share a life with if it turns out that way. No pressure though! I am one for taking things slow to get know each other as friends first and see where it will take us. Anything else you would like to know feel free to ask I don't mind sharing.

For friends I am open to hanging out and bond strongly with anyone just as long as you are not and asshole. However for a dating, ideally somes of the aspect I look for are someone who fully honest to themselves as well as me while knowing what they want. Also, I am very attracted to men who are humourous, value good health with themselves, affectionate, loyal, great sense of family, adventurous and consideratibley loving. Bonus points if happen to be a geek and have a deep passion for something out of life.

If any of this sounds intetesting to you. Feel free to send me a message. Take care :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently I just started rewarding job at a game studio in Oakland working in their Quality Assurance Department. Aside from this, i enjoy listening to music, creating visual/digital art, working out at the gym, dance and training Capoeria. Also i enjoy doing urban and scenic hiking from time to time when the weather is nice These are daily hobbies I take part in that better advance myself physically, creativly and mentally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friendly geek that is passionately determined to meet his goals in life. However, I do enjoy being a clown at heart making others laugh. Also for some reason I also have that gift to make others open up to me (don't know how but its still refreshing).

Hobbies specific, I am great at illustrating, creating 3D art, dance, gaming and enjoy cooking. Perhaps hopefully for YOU!!! Ha ha
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You have to meet me to know ha ha :D Usually people compliment me on my smile and say that I am handsome. Also that I am silly with my personality. Lately it has also been the dreads. Yet some people get a little intimidated by my build and height which I find quite odd :P. I'll will let you come to your own conclusion of what you notice about me when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not much of a novel reader since i am more visual up front. Print text in books bores me and i feel less engage in the story if there is no interaction of story on my end. However I will read books out of the necessity of knowledge. If its on a topic I find interesting I would read it.

Music is all over the place. I am a music junkie. Listening to some now. However top genre I listen to are Deep Soulful House, Game Music( Gotta shit ton of that as a well as house music), and some rap but late 80 to early 90's like Diggable Planets. Some of my favorite artist are Larry Heard, Aybee, Ron Trent, Trinidadian Deep, and Pepe Bradock to name a few. (extra points to anyone who knows these guys) :)

Movies: like em all but all time favorites is a good Comedy (Revenge of The Nerds) ha ha. Also i love a great informative documentaries depending of the topic.

TV is more life netflix to me now. Television use to be good back in the 90's but not so much now ha ha ;) However, when i have time to watch I enjoy shows such as Family Guy, South Park, Chappelle Show, Young and the Restless, etc. mainly on the net.

Food is mostly anything as long as it healthy and taste good. I occasionally eat my junk food too but I like to cut back on it. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My ability to constantly grow being creative visually, physically, and spiritually.
2. Friends and Family
3. Game and Music Collections
4. Great Health and Wellness with exercise
(Especially with training as a student of Capoeria)
5. FOOD :D
6. Goals to Accomplish (Career and Life)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- New music to listen to and Art work to fix up.

- Work and direction of my job/s and future goals will take me.
Capoeria Training and House Dance practicing on my own time.

- Connecting with a great guy for the long term.

- The next goal to accomplish off my list and Vision board.

(Yes! I do have one. For those of you that seen the documentary called The Secret should know what i am talking about :D)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This varies, I could be into doing anything on a Friday.....well almost anything ha ha but sometimes i could be unwinding at the The View Lounge Bar having a beer. Music Surfing on the net, Occasionally Gaming, drilling Capoeria movements, Occasionally at the club dancing in a cypher with friends, or on a road trip with friends. Also possibly at the Gym for a good workout or home relaxing if the rest of the week kicked my ass physically ha ha.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd rather tell you this in person. Ha ha
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You are seriously interested in wanting get to know me as friends or with the intent of dating to possibly pursue something long term. A guy who loves to joke and not take himself too seriously is a huge turn on. I love men that can make me smile, trust I will return the favor. :D

- If you have something more to say other than just "Hi" or "How are you?", "Cute Pic", or anything in that regard. I understand shyness as I can be myself but it would be nice if a guys let me know why they are honestly interested in me.

- If you are okay with dating or friending someone within the bay area that may not be currently living in the same city as yourself. If I want to invest time in getting to know you especially when dating, I would make it happen to see YOU quite often. Its just a train or bus ride away. :)

Not really looking for JUST a hookup but if that is all you are looking to give than please keep it moving. I am 32 years old now want to get to know YOU better first to see where it takes us before considering taking things to a more intimate level.