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  • Ages 21-45
  • Near me
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Last online
Oct 25
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you love life, smiling, being silly and are up for adventure – we’re off to a good start.

I’m a high-energy, squeeze-everything-out-of-life person, who doesn’t want to miss a thing. My mind is always busy. I love sports, both playing and spectating. I’m always looking for the next adventure; and would love to have someone to come along for the laughs and thrills.

That’s the fun side of me: seen most often. I also do know when to be responsible, attentive and realistic. I’m very patient. My life is in order. I like getting dressed up for the theater, or spending a nice lazy day in bed. I just go with the flow. I have a huge heart and love to make people smile. I’ll often go out of my way to do things for those I care about.

Open, honest and sincere communication is very important to me. I’ve seen profiles where people want or promise “no drama”. Realistically, sometimes drama is inevitable in life. It’s more about how you handle it; and if you have genuine, forthright dialogue, you can pretty much curtail drama before it gets out of control. Good communication improves relationships – with family, friends and significant others.

I hope to meet someone who values being healthy and physically fit; someone with the energy to come along for active adventures; someone with an upbeat, positive attitude, who doesn’t embarrass easily; someone who can be comfortable in almost any social situation and naturally find fun in everything. She’s smart, confident, independent yet caring and desires a sincere connection, nonjudgmental, patient, passionate and open to new experiences.

I do value being healthy; while some of my profile pictures show how my healthier lifestyle has made a difference, they also show me experimenting with my appearance – just for fun. As I am with everything, I’m honest with my “stats”, pictures and intentions. I’m not looking to get too intense too soon. Don’t read that or that I selected all the "For" option, wrong – I’m not a player just looking for a hook up. I just want to let things run their natural course, get to know each other, be friends and go from there. Let’s hang out. Have fun. Go on a few adventures.
Carpe diem - one day at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living..... I have a great job that I enjoy. I am an Air Traffic Control Specialist. I’ve worked under the FAA for a decade – after 5 years of doing the same in the military. It pays the bills and allows me to have fun and do what I want with my free time - from a lazy day doing nothing or cuddling, to high adrenaline experiences like skydiving, to walks with the pups or a motorcycle ride. Sailing, jet skiing. Learning new technology. Comedy shows, movies or sports (football, hockey, baseball, soccer). Recently I’m interested in learning a new language or languages, and teaching myself to play the guitar; we’ll see…… I'm also working on exercising more, maintaining the strides I've already made, and getting in better shape.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Don’t mean to be cocky, but honestly as long as it interests me and I focus, I’m pretty good at most things I try. More specifically though, I’ve got a talent for making people smile and laugh; even if they're laughing at me, I don't mind, as long as everyone's having fun. As far as I know, we only get one shot at the opportunity of life; might as well enjoy it and make it memorable. I’ve also been told I’m a good listener; though I’m not sure how one wouldn’t be. My hugs seem to get decent good reviews as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’ve never take a poll, but I’d guess my smile and good mood. I’m always in pretty high spirits, to the point that it is my "normal". It’s when I’m not upbeat that people usually take notice. I don’t let things get me down for very long though, and even if I am a bit bummed by something, I usually bounce back quickly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Admittedly I don’t read books as much as I used to. Most of my favorite authors are from years ago, when I read regularly: Kurt Vonnegut, Anne Rice, J.R. Tolkien, C.S. Lewis, Stephen Crane and Ray Bradbury. Today it's more periodicals, magazine, and news articles.

Movies: Forrest Gump, The Princess Bride, The Indiana Jones Series, The Usual Suspects, Fight Club, Star Wars, Never Ending Story, Snatch, Spaceballs, Bond movies, Office Space, ....... More recently - Kingsman: The Secret Service, John Wick, Guardians of the Galaxy

Shows: (TV) Eureka, Suits, Grimm, AGT, The Voice, South Park, Law & Order (main & SVU), Impractical Jokers, Off Their Rockers, White Collar, Once Upon A Time, Chuck, Daredevil...... (theater) Starlight Express, Young Frankenstein, Les Miserables, Mary Poppins, Fiddler on the Roof, The Book of Mormon (honestly want to see it again: interested?).....

Music: like everything else it’s all over the map - Maroon 5, Eminem, Rascal Flats, Billy Joel, Sublime, DMB, Aerosmith, Elton John, Queen, Paul Oakenfold, Zack Brown Band, Adam Lambert, Outkast, A Perfect Circle, Black Eyed Peas, The Dillards, Green Day, Deadmau5, The Brian Setzer Orchestra, Modest Mouse, Steve Miller Band, The Allman Brothers, T-Swift (not sure if I should admit that), Jamiroquai, 311, LMFAO ........ basically everything

Food: Honestly, I use to eat just about everything, Sushi, Italian, Steak, Seafood, Pho, Fondue, Hibachi, Mexican - and for the most part still can; however, as a result of some health stuff, I implemented some dietary restrictions: mostly gluten free, low dairy, lots of water, mostly fresh, non-gmo, natural- I also learned I have a slight allergy to shellfish and peanuts (go figure), so I quite often eat at home. Some of my favorite eating out spots are Fresh Bistro in W. Seattle, Asado in Tacoma, Hungry Goose in Puyallup, Plum in Seattle, Groundbreaker Gastropub in Portland - mostly non-chain places with fresh, high quality ingredients, and any style of food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd like to think that I could do without anything, I really don't need
much, though my phone did die a few weeks ago and I had to use an older
one, it was less pleasant than expected - so in an attempt to answer:
1 food, air, water, sleep (actual necessities)
2 my pups (I'll always own at least one dog)
3 laughter (I like making people smile)
4 connections/interactions (friends, family, acquaintances)
5 adventure, travel, activities
6 a belief that there's something more to everything (faith, religion, spirituality, karma, fate, destiny.... whatever you want to call it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All sorts of stuff, if I was a kid nowadays I'd probably be diagnosed OCD-ADHD-LMNOP-XYZ; basically I have certain parts of life that are very routine, but my mind is always moving. Although I can focus when necessary; I can get distracted, and am often thinking a few steps ahead, or just about completely random things…..”Why?” is always fun to ponder…..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It’s cliché, but there's really nothing typical; could be anything from a concert, to a movie, to Hulu/Netflix night with my pups, to just crashing early due to an exhausting week and plans on Saturday. Also, my Friday night is moving to Saturday night, as my weekend is moving to Sunday/Monday. I’m guessing a “typical Saturday night” won’t be much different than Friday has been.
You should message me if
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Obviously if you want to and confident enough to do so. You should want to if - you’re willing to accept that amidst all the weirdos, creepers and freaks you CAN meet a fun, decent human being; and if you’re up for having a good time. I can't guarantee sparks will fly, but I’m pretty certain smiles, laughter, and fun will.