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Unshriven

48 M Lewisville, TX

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:27pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm particularly interested in off grid living, sustainability, real food, humanism in the light of something larger than ourselves, homesteading, COB housing and living a better, responsible life. I'm looking for a partner that is into the same.
God, I love me a hippie chic...

I prefer to be messaged as many here send out a lot of messages playing the numbers game. I don't want to push myself on someone who doesn't have an interest or waste their time. If I do message you, it means I honestly see potential or that you're 'my type of people'.

I respond to ALL messages. Even if we aren't a good match, if you took the time to put yourself out there, it would be ignorant not to.

I'm here to meet someone for a long term relationship.
I'm open to going out and starting casually but my goal is something more serious. That being said, I'm looking for a good match, a good friend...I've met a few good women here but nothing that said long term. I won't push some that isn't right. 'close' isn't good enough.

I'm a ENTJ for those of you who care or use this as a guide.

I've often wondered if dating online is less about who you are than how well you can write about yourself. I don't think I can really convey who I am as I'm more complex than an essay. Like many, I'm different things to different people.
I'm more than a 1000 word profile.

On the surface, I'm witty, smart, fun to be with, salt of the earth and not easily flustered. What might not be so obvious in this venue is that I'm complex, eclectic, contemplative, passionate, stable, adventurous and nurturing. I'm infinitely patient with those I care about but don't suffer those who are willfully ignorant or rude.

I'm well read and well traveled. When I'm doing what I want, I'm cooking, rescuing dog, reading, fixing something, listening to music, watching something on PBS, helping someone else out if I can. I'm a left leaning libertarian who still believes in gun ownership, personal responsibility and just punishment for crimes. I also believe the government still should 'promote the general welfare' and not just corporations.....a hand up, not a handout should be what is offered to those who need it.

I've done a lot of things in my life, been a lot of places, seen some odd stuff, provided for everyone I could.
I don't need someone to complete me but I would like someone who would hold the other end of the ladder, be excited to pick out a movie because they know I might like it or could accept help with grace knowing how it was intended.

I'm looking for someone who appreciates subtly, when it's appropriate to be inappropriate, knows when it's time to blow off responsibilities and when to buckle down.....someone who is honest yet has enough character not to be brutal. Someone who has my back and knows that I will always have theirs.

There's so much more but I'm sure I've bored everyone to tears...anyway, if you see something that speaks to you, send me a message. I love nothing more than good conversation as I'm a collector of people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a professional, work in IT for a LARGE corporation and do dog rescue when I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything mechanical, making people laugh, choosing the wrong women, the right meal and the wrong moment.......sarcasm and humor.
I am trying to improve my cooking as I enjoy it. I cook gluten free for my room mate.
I go to the gym when I can but no I will not run with you. I did all my running in the service and I have flat feet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not shy, I can talk to anyone and I am very up front without being tactless
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Blade Runner, Heroditus, Good Will Hunting, Azimov, Fight Club, Pulp Fiction, Azmiov, Niven, Martin
Big Bang Theory, PBS
Pink Floyd, most classical music as well as classic rock, old jazz and anything with the blues.
Way too many to name, I have very eclectic tastes.
I'm starting to collect vinyl again and hope to buy a Fisher 500 ( a tube receiver ) to get a better sound for my records.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being connected, good food, my books, good conversation, my car and music. Yes, I use Facebook to help coordinate dog rescue, stay in touch with family and old friends. No, I don't post pictures of my food or what I'm doing every minute of every day. I have a life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how the hell did I get here...
where the hell am I going...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking, watching a movie or going out to dinner, reading, sometimes working or sitting home having fun with the dogs and cats or recovering from the week. I'm over the "club" but like dive bars.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love mariachi music.
As a note on this, don't be an idiot, it's the most "private" thing you're willing to admit, not tell me a dark secret or what are you're sexual kink. It's meant as tell us something about yourself that might not be immediately obvious or is a bit unexpected. It helps to give a little insight into your personality.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The above ages are a rule of thumb. If you're younger and mature with your life together, say hi. If you're older and you're a project, please don't.

You're bored, want someone interesting to talk to, just want to get out of the house or want a good meal and
need to get out of the house....

Everyone is fighting a few pounds (and I like curvy women) but I don't want to get involved with someone who's at risk for death due to self induced health issues.

FYI, if you are from Dallas and ask me where I'm from of if I have pictures or if you are temporarily out of the country in Ghana settling up some affairs, don't message me.