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30 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:04pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm trying this new thing where I only work on things that I find actually interesting and important.

I'm not sure I really understand how to do radical honesty but I know that I want it.

Sometimes I think we might all have too many barriers.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing (hopefully), editing for a new press (experimental), friends (seeking and retaining), reading, cooking (vegan), video games, and finding my place in Portland/the universe.
I’m really good at
Planning surprise parties, ordering in restaurants, showing up on time, recommending books, rising to the occasion, answering you honestly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I used to get a lot of comments on my beard, but Portland is clearly much more used to beards than DC was.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Margaret Atwood, Jeanette Winterson, Shirley Jackson, Kurt Vonnegut, Susanna Clarke, G. Willow Wilson, Ursula K. LeGuin

Films: Brazil, Pan's Labyrinth, The Seventh Seal, Eat Drink Man Woman, Alien, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Take Shelter

Television: Mad Men, Party Down, Deadwood, The Wire, Luther, Game of Thrones, Top of the Lake

Music: TV on the Radio, Des Ark, St. Vincent, Hope for Agoldensummer, Sunset Rubdown

Food: I really need to try everything. I still haven't found a good chinese food place. I love how much easier it is to find something vegan to eat in Portland.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Stories, relationships, people, change, food, sex, meaning, space, stressful things I don't want to be thinking about.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're comfortable with the fact that I have a sexual and romantic partner who I live with. I mean, ideally, you'd think that was really cool, that we're so attractive and interesting for being open to progressive social ideas like non-monogamy.

you're a writer, or an artist, and you want to talk about art and maybe even make things together. With or without a romantic affair, that is a worthy way to spend our limited time on earth.

you know how to belay and want to go rock climbing together. I'd go running, too. There's something awesome about the mutual encouragement that comes with trying to impress someone else.

you think I seem awesome and you want to ask me out on a date. (Fuck conventional gender roles!)