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30 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:52pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Writer/editor living in North Portland, being creative, making new friends. I moved to Portland in September of last year.

Currently seeking new friends and lovers. I want intimacy, clear communication, and mutual respect.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing, editing for an experimental press, hanging out with friends, reading, cooking and eating delicious vegan food, dancing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning surprise parties, ordering in restaurants, showing up on time, recommending books, rising to the occasion, answering you honestly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Handmaid's Tale - Margaret Atwood
Lighthousekeeping - Jeanette Winterson
The Haunting of Hill House - Shirley Jackson
Slaughterhouse-Five - Kurt Vonnegut
Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell - Susanna Clarke
Alif the Unseen - G. Willow Wilson
The Lathe of Heaven - Ursula K. LeGuin
Never Let Me Go - Kazuo Ishiguro
The Golem and the Jinni - Helene Wecker

Saga - Brian K. Vaughan and Fiona Staples
The Wicked and the Divine - Kieron Gillen and Jamie McKelvie

Brazil, Pan's Labyrinth, The Seventh Seal, Eat Drink Man Woman, Alien, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Take Shelter

Mad Men, Party Down, Deadwood, The Wire, Luther, Game of Thrones, Top of the Lake

Daughter, Wye Oak, TV on the Radio, Des Ark, St. Vincent, Janelle Monáe, Hope for Agoldensummer, Sunset Rubdown
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stories, relationships, people, change, food, intimacy, meaning, space, stressful things I don't want to be thinking about.
You should message me if
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you're a writer or an artist and you want to talk about art and maybe even make things together. With or without a romantic affair, that is a worthy way to spend our limited time on earth.

you know how to belay and want to go rock climbing together. I'd go running, too. There's something awesome about the mutual encouragement that comes with trying to impress someone else.

you think I'm attractive and interesting and you want to ask me out on a date. (Fuck conventional gender roles!)