27 Columbia, SC
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My self-summary
I am a series of contradictions and confusions. I am a white knight in tattered armor. At times I am human and a hypocrite but I compensate with my lust for living. Pushed in a box for years has had its toll but I am slowly breaking free; slowly, oh so slowly, I am becoming me. This journey is long and complex there are times when I don't know where I will go next. You are welcome to join me if you have the time, the patience, the passion.

I am a shy one but I hope that you'll find my awkwardness to be a part of my undeniable charm ;P

My sexuality and ideas of gender are fluid and I typically identify as Queer. I've been described this way once and I kinda love it:
"You look like a lesbian but you're queer as fuck." I'm also Pansexual. So yeah, I'm open to talk about sexual orientation, gender identity and presentation, gender politics, LGTBQ rights/issues. I love it all so feel free.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently completed the requirements for my BA in Secondary English Education at Columbia College as well as their Divergent Learning Master's Degree Program. I am very excited.
I teach in a South Carolina public school in a critical needs area and subject. I plan to be here for 4-5 years to pay off my teacher's loans.
After that...I'm not sure where I will go. I don't know yet but I do know that I want to use my life to make South Carolina public schools a safer more comfortable place for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans*, Queer students and their Allies.
I’m really good at
I am really good at procrastinating and yet accomplishing my goals in time anyway.
^ This was super true in college but I feel like I much prefer to be prepared ahead of time. I'm still good under pressure, I just don't prefer it anymore.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess in regards to physical features that stick out...I have blue eyes, they tend to get a fair amount of attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ann Rice [Interview With a Vampire, The Vampire Lestat etc]
J.K. Rowling [The Harry Potter series]
Kim Harrison [The Rachel Morgan series].

The Harry Potters
V for Vendetta
Pirates of the Caribbean (all of them)
Disney Cartoons

TV Shows:
The L Word

Music: 90s rock, Brand New, Shinedown, AFI, Hurt, Coheed and Cambria, Dashboard Confessional, Korn, Metallica, Kitty, Incubus, Elton John, Alanis Morsette, Pink, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, Him, Iron and Wine, Mumford and Sons, and many more.

Food: I'm kind of a picky eater. I'm the kind of person who has "a usual" type dish picked out at all my frequented restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
1. Food, Shelter, Water
2. Family
3. Literature
4. Friends
5. My Cell Phone
6. A Feeling of Accomplishment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How other people perceive me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying some much needed leisure time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My left eye gets squinty when I smile.
It always has.
You should message me if
Hey! Ever heard of roller derby? Think you might be interested in joining a team or attending a bout? If so message me!
I'm fresh meat for the Richland County Regulators and I love it!

Or message me if:

You are interested in talking to me =]. I'm hoping to use this site to make new friends and I am up for meeting anyone. Don't be shy, I always respond.
All I ask is if you message me please satisfy my love for the English language. No chat speak.

Also, I ask for your patience. I'm not always checking my okc so there may be delays between my correspondence.