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26 Columbia, SC Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20-39
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 13
Pansexual, Queer
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a series of contradictions and confusions. I am a white knight in tattered armor. At times I am human and a hypocrite but I compensate with my lust for living. Pushed in a box for years has had its toll but I am slowly breaking free; slowly, oh so slowly, I am becoming me. This journey is long and complex there are times when I don't know where I will go next. You are welcome to join me if you have the time, the patience, the passion.

I am a shy one but I hope that you'll find my awkwardness to be a part of my undeniable charm ;P

My sexuality and ideas of gender are fluid and I typically identify as Queer. I've been described this way once and I kinda love it:
"You look like a lesbian but you're queer as fuck." I'm also Pansexual. So yeah, I'm open to talk about sexual orientation, gender identity and presentation, gender politics, LGTBQ rights/issues. I love it all so feel free.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently completed the requirements for my BA in Secondary English Education at Columbia College as well as their Divergent Learning Master's Degree Program. I am very excited.
I teach in a South Carolina public school in a critical needs area and subject. I plan to be here for 4-5 years to pay off my teacher's loans.
After that...I'm not sure where I will go. I don't know yet but I do know that I want to use my life to make South Carolina public schools a safer more comfortable place for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans*, Queer students and their Allies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at procrastinating and yet accomplishing my goals in time anyway.
^ This was super true in college but I feel like I much prefer to be prepared ahead of time. I'm still good under pressure, I just don't prefer it anymore.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess in regards to physical features that stick out...I have blue eyes, they tend to get a fair amount of attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ann Rice [Interview With a Vampire, The Vampire Lestat etc]
J.K. Rowling [The Harry Potter series]
Kim Harrison [The Rachel Morgan series].

The Harry Potters
V for Vendetta
Pirates of the Caribbean (all of them)
Disney Cartoons

TV Shows:
The L Word

Music: 90s rock, Brand New, Shinedown, AFI, Hurt, Coheed and Cambria, Dashboard Confessional, Korn, Metallica, Kitty, Incubus, Elton John, Alanis Morsette, Pink, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, Him, Iron and Wine, Mumford and Sons, and many more.

Food: I'm kind of a picky eater. I'm the kind of person who has "a usual" type dish picked out at all my frequented restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Food, Shelter, Water
2. Family
3. Literature
4. Friends
5. My Cell Phone
6. A Feeling of Accomplishment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How other people perceive me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying some much needed leisure time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My left eye gets squinty when I smile.
It always has.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Hey! Ever heard of roller derby? Think you might be interested in joining a team or attending a bout? If so message me!
I'm fresh meat for the Richland County Regulators and I love it!

Or message me if:

You are interested in talking to me =]. I'm hoping to use this site to make new friends and I am up for meeting anyone. Don't be shy, I always respond.
All I ask is if you message me please satisfy my love for the English language. No chat speak.

Also, I ask for your patience. I'm not always checking my okc so there may be delays between my correspondence.