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Urban_farmgirl

56 F Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Smart, funny men make my heart go pitter-pat, although integrity, compassion, and affection count for a lot, too (don't mind a few muscles either but they're hardly mandatory).

Love books, movies, music, travel, baseball, pub trivia, boxing, history, swing dancing, running, estate sales, flea markets, weird news, a white sand beach and about 30,000 other things.

I'm warm, witty, healthy, fairly fit, comfortable with myself and not into drama, the poly lifestyle or S & M (sorry Rihanna). Usually drawn to people who pay attention to the news, admit to watching TV (as long as it's not that Real Housewives crap) and who genuinely like people and are curious about the world.

I'm not big on lying so I've put up my actual age. But ... I definitely skew young -- in looks, disposition and friends/romantic partners. BTW, I consider 40 young. 22, on the other hand, is delusional. ; )
What I’m doing with my life
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Researching, writing, editing and generally trying to be a force for good in a cold hard world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people comfortable, making people laugh, making chocolate chip oatmeal cookies, making out. ; )
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe you can tell me when we meet. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a writer so I love books. In fact, I collect books -- everything from vintage sex manuals to goofy guides on self-hypnosis.

Other fave things in no particular order:
Billy Wilder films
Star Trek
The Day the Earth Stood Still
Pretty much anything by Hitchcock
The King's Speech
Hot Tub Time Machine
Rise of the Planet of the Apes
Crisp clean sheets
Pub trivia
Dungeness Spit
AMC's Mad Men / Breaking Bad / Walking Dead
BBC's Luther / In the Flesh / Ripper Street
Writing
Playing the piano
Penguins
Baseball games
Bowling
The Daily Show
Downton Abbey
Game of Thrones
Scrabble
Cryptozoology
Narwhals
Cool historic towns
Aretha Franklin
Marvin Gaye
Flo Rida
Chopin
Macklemore
Johnny Cash
Iggy

As for food, I'm hip to just about anything except baby animals, fast food and organ meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Humor, music, sunshine, my smartphone, good running shoes, Netflix!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, friends, family, fitness. And yes, you. ; )
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a beer with work buddies. Home watching a good movie. Sipping a vodka martini somewhere swanky..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a work in progress.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 44–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're smart, funny, sexy, affectionate, like to read and love to laugh.