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Urban_farmgirl

54 / F / Straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

Her Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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First and foremost, no polys / no marrieds / no hookups.
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Moving on ... funny and smart are what make my heart go pitter-pat, although integrity, compassion, and affection count for a lot, too. Not necessarily looking for marriage, but not averse to the idea of an LTR. Would definitely welcome some warm, witty companionship for movies, music, make-out sessions, urban walks, waterfront runs, bookstore browsing, and all the rest should the chemistry be right.

Interests include books, movies, music, travel, baseball, pub trivia, boxing, history, swing dancing, running, estate sales, flea markets, weird news, narwhals, and about 30,000 other things.

I've always been a pushover for a big brain, especially a big funny smart-ass sort of brain. I'm also drawn to people who pay attention to the news, admit to watching TV (as long as it's not the Real Housewives of Who Cares crap) and who genuinely like people and are curious about the world.

One last thing, I'm not big on lying so I've put up my actual age. BUT ... I definitely skew young -- in looks, disposition and (as a result) friends/romantic partners. Not interested in fulfilling anybody's Mrs. Robinson fantasies, but tend to date guys in their 40s rather than guys in their 60s.
What I’m doing with my life
Researching, writing, editing. Lather, rinse, repeat.
I’m really good at
Making people comfortable, making people laugh, making chocolate chip oatmeal cookies, making out. ; )
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe you can tell me when we meet. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a writer so I love books. In fact, I collect books -- everything from vintage sex manuals to noirish mysteries to goofy guides on self-hypnosis and chicken farming at home.

Movie faves (old): Some Like it Hot, All About Eve, Stalag 17, Key Largo, Sunset Boulevard, Double Indemnity, The Day the Earth Stood Still, The Apartment, and pretty much anything by Hitchcock.

Movie faves (recent): Life of Pi, Moonrise Kingdom, Safety Not Guaranteed, Bernie, The King's Speech, The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (Swedish and American version), Rise of the Planet of the Apes, The Hangover.

TV faves: Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Southland, The Daily Show, Downton Abbey, Game of Thrones.

Music: R & B, disco, swing, classical, pop, hip hop, classic rock. Pretty much anything except heavy meal, Christian rock and new country.

As for food ... most anything goes (well, except baby animals).
The six things I could never do without
My keyboards (laptop & piano)
Family and friends
Books and bookstores
Fresh sweet raspberries
A sense of humor
The art of seduction

And a few more: my smartphone, my iPod, good running shoes and the sun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work, friends, family, running, books, politics, the news, how to give back, how to get stronger, how much I need a vacation, books I want to write. Oh, and boxing (just took it up!).
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends. Home with a good movie. Sipping a vodka martini at my neighborhood watering hole.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book. Except it's in Greek. ; )
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're smart, funny, sexy, like to read, love to laugh and have a favorite old movie (or three).