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Urbanandcool

59 / F / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:36am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am spirited, energetic and optimistic. I am lucky to have a career and life that is active and fulfilling. It is time for a romantic relationship. I want to be swept off my feet by a man who ranks me high on his list of priorities. I generally connect better with men who are five to seven years younger but am not interested in dating men younger than 48. My trainer keeps me in great shape, well toned with great guns. My photos are current, except the one in a gown which is two years old. My match is a strong, intelligent, confidant, successful man who is compassionate, kind and expressive. Being fit and attractive are necessary prerequisites. Please don’t contact me without a photo or if you live far away. I am an executive at a large govt. arts agency where I've worked most of my adult life. I started at an entry level position and worked my way to the near top. I’m proud of my work to improve the public realm and privileged to have a position that challenges and stimulates me. I love what I do and am never bored. I was a visual artist and also played classical music for years. In my own way, whether through my volunteer work, making donations, saying something kind to a stranger on the street, I am committed to healing the world. I hope I have transmitted these values to my sons. Generosity, kindness and compassion are qualities that attract me. I am smart, resilient, gentle, strong, diplomatic, reserved, wild, gracious, kind, sexy and particular. My sons, 20 and 23 are my greatest successes. They are smart, cool, kind, empathetic and funny and teach me about the best IPAs, weight lifting and expand my knowledge of sports. I know the difference between a slider. and knuckle ball. They are impressed w/my muscles as well as my ability to do incline push ups and swing 36 lb. kettle balls. They give me dating advice and are protective of me. I have finally become the "cool mom." They advise me that women don't pursue men.
I like anything related to the arts. A passionate Alfa Romeo/ Italian car enthusiast, I own a 72 GTV 2000, which I've restored again and again. It is my daily rider. I bought it in my 20s and can't imagine driving anything else, except a Guilietta Sprint Especiale or an old Ferrari. I am an Alfa/Alpha woman in every way! My interest in cars doesn't qualify me as a gear head; it's primarily from an aesthetic stylistic perspective. I am very into cars, but specific cars. Musical tastes range from Cuban boleros to opera, classical, salsa. the Blues, Rock Roll and Jazz. I love to travel but it is always great to be in my beautiful city or just home by myself dancing in my kitchen. I've been to 30 countries and am proud that I traveled alone for 1 yr. in my early 20s to So. America. Favorite things include walking through SF's neighborhoods, looking at the bay, the sea, oceans lakes, anything blue, visiting galleries, museums and art spaces, listening to music, staying at home on chilly nights watching movies, making dinner, drinking good wine. Like most San Franciscans, I am a Giants' fan, though I don't know every stat. I rely on my sons for that. I am ready to try new things and push my own boundaries all the time. Fluent in Spanish, I also speak some Italian and can understand more French than I speak. I have a facility for learning languages, which may be related to my years of classical music study and an unusual capacity for visual and audio memory.
What I’m doing with my life
Everything possible!
I’m really good at
Communicating with people, making people feel at ease, having a unique sense of style, being driven to achieve my goals, being kind, loving others, telling the truth
The first things people usually notice about me
my car, if I happen to be in it, my petite but fit stature, my style and apearance, my distinct voice and manner of speaking
The six things I could never do without
Family and friends, kindness, grace, the sun, love, intelligence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, love, my future, my children, ways to be stronger, kinder and a better friend,mother, conscious citizen, everything I have seen and observed, what I can learn and glean from each experience, appreciating how lucky I am in so many ways.
On a typical Friday night I am
on a date, dining with good friends, at an art event, reading, drinking champagne
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't sleep in an unmade bed
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are interested, interesting and have read my profile above.