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58 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 56–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 6:02pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am lucky to have a life that is active and fulfilling. After dating for a few years, I would like to be involved in a longer term, meaningful and affectionate romantic relationship with someone who is expressive, fair, intelligent, driven and kind. Being attractive and in good shape, fit and athletic are necessary prerequisites. My trainer keeps me in great shape. I am discerning, demure, passionate about everything and everyone i care about . Please don’t contact me without a photo or if you live far away. My photos are current. I look young for my age and prefer to date men who are a few years younger than me.

I am an executive at a large govt. arts agency where I've worked most of my adult life. I started at an entry level position and worked my way to the near top. I’m proud of my work to improve the public realm and privileged to have a job that challenges and stimulates me. I love what I do and am never bored. Generosity, kindness and compassion are qualities that attract me.
My sons, 20 and 23, are my greatest successes. They are smart, cool and funny and teach me about the best IPAs, weight lifting and expand my knowledge of sports. I even know the difference between a slider and a knuckle ball. Our relationship continues to evolve. They have become wise as young adults.

I like anything related to the arts. A passionate Alfa Romeo/ Italian car enthusiast, I own a 72 GTV 2000, which I've had restored again and again. It is my daily rider. I bought it in my 20s and can't imagine driving anything else, except a Guilietta Sprint Especiale or a 60's Ferrari. My interest in cars doesn't qualify me as a gear head; it's primarily from an aesthetic stylistic perspective.
Musical tastes range from Cuban boleros to opera, classical, salsa. the Blues, Rock Roll and Jazz.

I love to travel but it is always great to be in my beautiful city or just home dancing in my kitchen. I've been to 30 countries and am proud that I traveled alone for 1 yr. in my early 20s to So. America. Favorite things include working out, walking through SF's neighborhoods, looking at the bay, the sea, anything blue, visiting galleries, museums and art spaces, listening to music, staying at home on chilly nights watching movies, warm weather, balmy nights beach life, cooking for friends and family and drinking good wine. I've just learned to mountain bike and kayak.

I am a Giant's fan, been called a Gamer Babe, though I don't know every stat or most to tell the truth, but I do look good with those colors all over me.

I am ready and delighted to try new things and push my own boundaries all the time. Fluent in Spanish, I also speak some Italian and can understand more French than I speak. Thanks for visiting.
What I’m doing with my life
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Everything possible!
I’m really good at
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Communicating with people, making people feel at ease, my unique sense of style, being driven to achieve my goals, being kind, telling the truth, being compassionate
The first things people usually notice about me
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my car, with or without me, my slender but fit and muscular stature, my unique manner of dress and my distinct voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Faulkner, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Winnie the Pooh, Wind in the Willows, Alice in Wonderland, films by Woodie Allen, Pedro Almodovar, Truffaut, Fellini, the Coen Brothers; eric Clapton, rolling Stones, latin music, Chopin, Bach, Spotify, perfect summer tomatoes, white peaches, dark figs, basil, Italian wine, French champagne .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The love and warmth of family and friends, kindness, a sense of grace, the sun, intelligence and a good challenge.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
ways to be stronger, kinder and a better friend, mother, partner and conscious citizen of the world; what I can learn and glean from each experience, appreciating how lucky I am in so many ways; what's the next improvement I need to make to my 43 year old Alfa Romeo.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having fun
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't sleep in an unmade bed.
You should message me if
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you have the qualities I seek in a man.

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