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22 Oakland, CA Transgender, Non-binary, Agender, Genderqueer

Transgender, Non-binary, Agender, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 2:22pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Uriah, here.

Chicago transplant to the Bay lookin' to date + see what happens with other queers & explore together. Slowly finding my footing in this part of the world.

I'm trans and my pronouns are the gender-neutral they/them/their.

I'm a writer, avid home cook/wanna-be personal chef and sculptor interested in social issues and politics. I'm a bit of an audiophile and technophile. I love to cook, read, garden, play games and solve puzzles, as well as debate. Prison and work abolitionist. I'm invested in the eradication of white supremacy and whiteness. Dedicated to anti-racist struggles. Transhumanist. Pirate. Anti-Assimilationist Genderqueer & Queer. I'd love to be a dandy faggot if I only had the self-confidence. Polyamorous. Kinky. Post-privacy pioneer. "Leftist radical". Y'know...
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm taking some time off from school to do some unschooling, relax, meet new people, and do some new and exciting things. Slowly making it happen.

I'm a dropout of The School of the Art Institute of Chicago. I'm was getting a BFAW until I decided to move to California to pursue doing personal chef work. I'm a poet, essayist, object maker (metals and textiles) and interested in social practice art. I'm interested in a practice where I utilize food to open up a dialogue about health, sustainability and community.

I'm immensely interested in food justice and systems as a way to talk about community and poverty alleviation. I'm living in Oakland and I'm interested in finding the opportunities the Bay has to offer. Currently working on a farm and being a part of the farm-to-table movement. This is immensely ironic seeing as I spent my childhood waiting to get out of the small farm town I grew up.

Amateur cartographer, public transit and urban planning enthusiast. Fascinated by systems and ethical data-driven decisions. Interested in how systems, data, planning, etc can coincide to both cement supremacies but also be utilized to work to end them.

I write for a few blogs. Mostly about politics, art and culture, but most of them focus on politics and critical theory.

I'm in a polyamorous/non-monogamous relationship with fooshbaba, who is a pretty snazzy lady and one of my best friends. Looking for other snazzy folks. The way I do non-monogamy tends to be different from most folks. I generally practice nonhierarchical polyamory and I find the language we have to adequately describe relationships is at best poorly conceived and at worst non-existant. I'm looking for more queers to have ongoing casual-ish relationships with.

Queer. Activist. INTP.
Kink. Feminist. Genderqueer.

Eating all the food. Specifically, all the Ethiopian, Thai and Latin.

Also been hanging out at Wicked Grounds and The Citadel and hope to delve a bit more into some kink/queer/poly scenes. I've been meeting some amazing people at the play parties.

Gardening! Been working on my garden with fooshbaba and chughes87. Been slowing down on this because of the drought, but our tomatoes are delicious. I also work for a farm now, so we get lots of great produce from that.

Always looking for kick-ass restaurants. I love Thai, Korean, Mexican, Dominican, Cuban, Puerto Rican, Ethiopian, Filipino, classic French cooking and Southern food. I'm also cooking a LOT. Pretty much daily. I like doing a lot of things from scratch and I like thinking up entire menus. I love pizza and pad thai above most things.
I’m really good at
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Cooking. Writing. Debating. Music. Accountability. Sincerity. Analysis.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have lots of ideas, thoughts and opinions. I care deeply about my friends and my beliefs.

The first thing I wish people usually noticed about me:
I'm pretty damn queer for a male-placed white "boy" from rural Illinois.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Lorca, Pablo Neruda, Bukowski, Dostoevsky, Camus, Lorde, Baldwin, Kafka, Cormac McCarthy, Ralph Ellison, Margaret Atwood, Douglas Adams, Sagan, Whitman, Nelson Algren, R. Bakker, W.E.B. Du Bois, Octavia Butler, Ursula K. Le Guin. Lots of bloggers. Most of Black Twitter is a godsend. Lots of critical theory.

The Proposition, The Spook Who Sat By the Door, Beasts of the Southern Wild, The Master, Do the Right Thing, Book of Eli, Taken, Once, Amelie, It's A Wonderful Life, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, Pulp Fiction, Renaissance, House of D, Sunshine, Children of Men, WALL-E, Big Fish, American Psycho, Pan's Labyrinth, Gangs of New York, Becket, Fanny & Alexander, The Lives of Others, The Proposition, Wind That Shakes The Barley, A Soldier's Story, Papillion, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Master & Commander, Casino Royale, Ratatouille, Toy Story (1 & 3), Dark Crystal, The Iron Giant, Kirkikou et la Sorciere, Batman: Mask of the Phantasm, Wallace & Grommitt: Curse of the Wererabbit, Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Triplets of Belleville, Crónicas, Hombre mirando al sudeste, Amores Perros, Survive Style 5+, Anything by Tarkovsky. I think Tarkovsky is the greatest artist of all time.

The Borgias, Mad Men, Breaking Bad (Seasons 1-2), Legend of Korra (Season 1 minus the last episode), West Wing (Seasons 1-4), Louie, Avatar: The Last Airbender, FMA: Brotherhood, Community (Season 2), Legends of Galactic Heroes, Darker Than Black, Adventure Time, Gravity Falls, Motorcity, Young Justice, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Vikings, Borgen.

Electronic, Folk, Bluegrass, Jazz, Blues, Classical, Hip Hop, Soul, R&B, Gospel/Spirituals. I obviously listen to more than this, but these are my mains.

Video Games
Psychonauts, Amnesia, Silent Hill 2, Silent Hill 3, Braid, Machinarium, Skyrim, Jet Set Radio Future, Panzer Dragoon Orta, Shadow of the Colossus, Sly Cooper, KoTOR, KoTOR II, Super Metroid, Team Fortress II, Portal (I & II), Black & White, Civilization V, Legend of Zelda, Ocarina of Time, Windwaker, Majora's Mask, EVE Online, Transcendence (just started), Mark of the Ninja, Dust: An Elysian Tale, La Mulana, GTA V, Devil May Cry (newest), Hotline Miami, Dark Souls, Broken Age.

Thai, Korean, Mexican, Dominican, Cuban, Puerto Rican, Ethiopian, Filipino, classic French cooking and Southern food.
I could probably live off of pad thai and pizza for a very long time.

Theaster Gates, Adrian Piper, Rashid Johnson, Fred Holland, Lee Bontecou, Anselm Kiefer, Mike Kelley, Claude Cahun, Cindy Sherman, Jeff Wall, Christian Marclay, Tarkovsky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to write with/on. Music. Good cooking. Good conversation. Good friends. Good sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics. Social issues. Philosophy. Art. Films. Blogs. Music. Sex. Race. Gender. Technology. Urban Planning. Public Transportation. Science. Math. The Answer to Life, The Universe, and Everything. Singularity. Transhumanism. Data and Information. Food justice/systems. Community. Sincerity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Food is usually involved. Food is almost always involved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an Eagle Scout and one of the Pinewood Derby cars I made almost made it to Nationals and they actually made a badge that was modeled after the car that is still given to winners in the region that I was a Boy Scout in. Also, I totally am not into the weird authoritarian, conservative, pseudo-militaristic culture of the Boy Scouts. I just really like camping, wilderness survival and learning lots of skills relating to making/living/homesteading it.

I'm not actually private what-so-ever, so I just viewed this section as an excuse to put something that I've never really told anyone.
You should message me if
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Take out the if. You should just message me!

I also have a not so secret desire to start doing queer porn, so if you're interested in doing shoots with me or working out any other details or giving me any pointers, shoot me a message.... Also interested in folks for skill shares, hiking and cooking buddies and ongoing play partners.