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38 Richmond, VA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:22pm
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a dom who's also liberal and a feminist. Wrap your brain around that. Vanilla interests encompass the diverse and wonderful world of geek. I would have become a physicist if math didn't bore me half to death.

I now live in Richmond but DC will always be home. I try to make it up there to visit family and friends whenever I can, so, if you're in the DC area, you're more than welcome to say hello.

Long term and serious are the ultimate goals but I'm looking to keep things fun and casual until I find the right person for such intensity. I am not in a rush. Please be sane enough to recognize the wisdom in this.

Fun fact: I only recently found out "Netflix & Chill" was code for hooking up. If I text you "Netflix & Chill?" I actually mean let's hang out and watch Netflix. If I want to fuck, I'm a grown man who will just say so instead of being oblique about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work, work, work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That they finally have a chance to have a Black Friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite genres are science fiction/fantasy/supernatural, anime, mystery, and suspense/thriller but I love anything with a good story and compelling characters. The lists are long, so I'm just going to go with a few of the more recent I've experienced in each category and liked.

Books: Foundation; Skin Game (The Dresden Files #15); I, Robot; The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest

Movies: Guardians of the Galaxy, X-Men: Days of Future Past, Captain America: The Winter Soldier

TV: UFC, Drunk History, Avatar: Legend of Korra, Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Adventure Time!, Bob's Burgers, South Park, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones

Netflix Binges: American Horror Story: Asylum, Star Wars: The Clone Wars, The Walking Dead, Fringe

Games: Destiny (Beta), The Walking Dead, The Wolf Among Us, I AM Alive, Mark of the Ninja, Brothers: A Tale of Two Sons, Braid

Breaking my own rule with these last two categories. Sue me.

Music: I love nearly everything but mostly listen to movie and game soundtracks, classical, classic rock, and electronic/dance

Food: Italian, sushi, (real) ramen and other Asian noodle dishes, Elevation Burger, Five Guys Famous Burgers & Fries, Ray's The Third cheesesteaks, double-sauced meatloaf, mashed potatoes, eggs
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creativity, fun, kink, romance, delicious things, a submissive cutie.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh, you know, bear stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, going out, and/or spanking a deserving bottom.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had crushes on Gadget from "Chip and Dale: Rescue Rangers" and Ms. Frizzle from "The Magic Schoolbus."
You should message me if
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You're a smart, witty, kind, healthy, submissive girl with a strong domestic streak. You don't smoke (or you're prepared to quit). If you're also adorable and feisty, I may just fall in love.