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34 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:53am
Bisexual, Sapiosexual
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
A little extra
Strictly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Formerly nomadic, intellectually stimulating adventurer seeks same for fun, love, and more. INFP. I find intelligence incredibly sexy - sapiosexual anyone?

I read a lot, and I like to seek out new adventures. Other interests include but are not limited to: music, backpacking, crossfit, cooking, cycling, and playing guitar.

I am passionate about social justice and working toward ending isms. My work and a lot of my thinking/discussing time is devoted to this. I believe language is important, stories of lived experience are valid data, and we are not in a post-(racial/sexism/any other ism) society. I want to combat these on personal, interpersonal, and systemic levels.

Health and well-being are important to me. I take time for myself to recharge, get outside as much as I can, and try to eat well.

I find tremendous good in spending time with animals, and there is never a day where music does not play a role in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moving closer to family, trying to fix higher education, Tweeting and blogging, walking a lot, petting ALL THE DOGS
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding people
Coming up with creative ideas and communicating them
Telling stories
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smile a lot and I have strong opinions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot lot lot of journal articles, but when I fly on airplanes I read trashy magazines.

I watch hockey. Go Pens! I watch other things too...trashy things that are for turning off my brain.

I am allergic to wheat, and I eat mostly paleo.

I listen to lots of different music, and will always stop when I hear a 90's grunge hit.

Podcasts...mildly obsessed with Welcome to Night Vale.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, love, my guitar, nature, friends, my bike, rule breaking

(not necessarily in that order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to create change.
Where I will travel next.
What kind of dog I want to adopt.
Cool new recipes.
Research topics.
The next step in developing my nonprofit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing something fun with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I eat almond butter right out of the jar by the spoonful. If that grosses you out, I'll label the jar so you know it's mine.

I am thinking I need to get my own place because, well, pants are overrated.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can get on board with a tattooed educator working in the nonprofit sector.

You want to eat brunch with me.

You think your profile will make me laugh.