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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:49pm
Relationship Type
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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Formerly nomadic, intellectually stimulating adventurer seeks same for fun, love, and more. INFP. I find intelligence incredibly sexy - sapiosexual anyone?

I read a lot, and I like to seek out new adventures. A few fun bullets about me:
- I lived for 3 years in a county the size of Rhode Island with 3000 people, 3 highways, and no stoplights.
- Breakfast is my favorite meal.
- I love hockey, and the Pittsburgh Penguins are my team. Go Fleury!!!
- I mostly read nonfiction and journal articles, but when I fly I read trashy magazines.
- Three tattoos...not all of them are visible.
- I do not believe we are in a post-ism world.
- Backpacking: my sport of choice.

Health and well-being are important to me. I take time for myself to recharge, get outside as much as I can, and try to eat well. I find tremendous good in spending time with animals, and there is never a day where music does not play a role in my life.

My favorite thing to do is go backpacking. Bonus points if I don't have to teach you...though I will teach you if you have never been.
What I’m doing with my life
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Moving closer to family, trying to fix higher education, Tweeting and writing, walking a lot, helping low-income students graduate college, petting ALL THE DOGS
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding people
Coming up with creative ideas and communicating them
Telling stories
Planning adventures
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot of people comment on the tattoo on my wrist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Political drama, crime shows, and reruns of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

I am allergic to wheat, and I eat mostly paleo.

I listen to lots of different music, and will always stop when I hear a 90's grunge hit.

Podcasts...mildly obsessed with Welcome to Night Vale.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, love, my guitar, nature, friends, my bike, rule breaking

(not necessarily in that order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to create change.
Higher education access.
Where I will travel next.
What kind of dog I want to adopt.
Cool new recipes.
Research topics.
The next step in developing my nonprofit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing something fun with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I eat almond butter right out of the jar by the spoonful. If that grosses you out, I'll label the jar so you know it's mine.

I can never decide on what to put for my body type here. The world has so many opinions, and offers so much shame to women. What's "average" or "a little extra" or "curvy?" They seem arbitrary. Let's go with I'm in the best shape of my life, and I'm never gonna be skinny. I'm ok with that. I love my body. It does awesome things for me every day.

If you need people you date to be thin, please move along. I prefer not to have to deal with people's sizeism in my dating life.
You should message me if
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You can get on board with a tattooed academic working in the nonprofit sector.

You want to eat brunch with me.

You think your profile will make me laugh.

You think your dog will make me laugh.