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44 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Two very important things up front:

1) I am a transgender man (FTM). If you don't know what trans is, or what it means, and you'd like to find out, please go here to read about it:

2) I am also poly, meaning I am not monogamous. I currently have two wonderful partners who I'm very serious about. I am currently only interested in meeting other men for short or long term dating.

I'm queer, kinky, and a gamer-geek. I go to cons, I read graphic novels, I go to filk shows and house concerts, I play D&D.

I am goofy, geeky, and a punning linguist
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the technology industry as a technical writer.
I’m really good at
My superpower is the ability to turn almost any statement into a sexual innuendo. Also, I can wiggle my nose & ears. But not when I'm giggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
Right now, it's the big blue mohawk. But normally, it's my deep blue eyes and long eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(A) Oh, goodness - where to start? I like Sci-Fi and Fantasy, some horror. I also enjoy graphic novels. Fave authors include William Gibson, Bruce Sterling, Neal Stephenson, Neil Gaiman, Charles DeLint, Alan Moore, Umberto Eco, Elie Wiesel, Seanan McGuire, Cherie Priest.

(B) My taste in movies follows my taste in books - solidly sci-fi & fantasy: Bladerunner, The Matrix (loved the first one, hated the last one, the one in the middle was ok), LOTR, Serenity, The Princess Bride, Stardust, old Hammer horror films, black and white vampire movies, Say Anything, The Breakfast Club, Star Wars (most of them), anything with Johnny Depp. I also have a soft spot for animated movies like Despicable Me, Kung Fu Panda, Monsters Inc., 9, The Jungle Book (original Disney animated, not the crappy one with music by Phil Collins), etc.

(C) Techno, Indie, Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Alternative, Punk. Specifically: Queen, Led Zepplin, Depeche Mode, Tom Waits, The Cure, New Order, Pet Shop Boys, Kate Bush, Annie Lennox, Sarah McLachlan, Peter Gabriel, The Ramones, Tom Waits, Talking Heads/David Byrne, Roxy Music/Bryan Ferry, Indigo Girls, Dar Williams, K.T. Tunstall, S.J. Tucker, Bone Poets Orchestra (formerly Gaia Consort, Abney Park, Rufus Wainwright, Rusted Root, Moxy Fruvous, Ani DiFranco. Did I mention I like Tom Waits?

(D) I've got pretty broad taste in cuisines: Indian, Thai, Japanese, Vietnamese, Italian, Greek, Afghan, recently discovered Trinidadian. I don't eat beef or pork, but I do eat fish, seafood and fowl (chicken and turkey, mostly). I can be quite happy eating vegetarian. I absolutely love sushi!
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually watching something on Netflix at home with one or both of my ladies.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 28–55
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You feel like it.