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45 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 25–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Two very important things up front:

1) I am a transgender man (FTM). If you don't know what trans* is, or what it means, and you'd like to find out, please go here to read about it:

2) I am also poly, meaning I am not monogamous. I currently have two wonderful partners who I'm very serious about. I am currently only interested in meeting other men for short or long term dating.

I'm queer, kinky, and a gamer-geek. I go to cons, I read graphic novels, I go to filk shows and house concerts, I play D&D and board games.

I am goofy, geeky, and a punning linguist
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the computer industry as a technical writer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My superpower is the ability to turn almost any statement into a sexual innuendo. Also, I can wiggle my nose & ears. But not when I'm giggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Right now, it's the big blue mohawk. But normally, it's my deep blue eyes and long eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(A) Oh, goodness - where to start? I like Sci-Fi and Fantasy, some horror. I also enjoy graphic novels. Fave authors include William Gibson, Bruce Sterling, Neal Stephenson, Neil Gaiman, Charles DeLint, Alan Moore, Umberto Eco, Elie Wiesel, Seanan McGuire, Cherie Priest.

(B) My taste in movies follows my taste in books - solidly sci-fi & fantasy: Bladerunner, The Matrix (loved the first one, hated the last one, the one in the middle was ok), LOTR, Serenity, The Princess Bride, Stardust, old Hammer horror films, black and white vampire movies, Say Anything, The Breakfast Club, Star Wars (most of them), anything with Johnny Depp. I also have a soft spot for animated movies like Despicable Me, Kung Fu Panda, Monsters Inc., 9, The Jungle Book (original Disney animated, not the crappy one with music by Phil Collins), etc.

(C) Techno, Indie, Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Alternative, Punk. Specifically: Queen, Led Zepplin, Depeche Mode, Tom Waits, The Cure, New Order, Pet Shop Boys, Kate Bush, Annie Lennox, Sarah McLachlan, Peter Gabriel, The Ramones, Tom Waits, Talking Heads/David Byrne, Roxy Music/Bryan Ferry, Indigo Girls, Dar Williams, K.T. Tunstall, S.J. Tucker, Bone Poets Orchestra (formerly Gaia Consort, Abney Park, Rufus Wainwright, Rusted Root, Moxy Fruvous, Ani DiFranco. Did I mention I like Tom Waits?

(D) I've got pretty broad taste in cuisines: Indian, Thai, Japanese, Vietnamese, Italian, Greek, Afghan, recently discovered Trinidadian. Although I have returned to my meat-eating ways, I can be quite happy eating vegetarian. I absolutely love sushi!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next stage of my current project is, and when will I find time to do all the other projects that are lined up waiting behind it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually watching something streaming online at home with the family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am very orally fixated.
You should message me if
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You feel like it.