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27 M Westmont, IL

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  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:44pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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Like most people, I was born, and some say that's where the similarities end. On the surface, my childhood appeared as normal as any other, but behind the veil lie a secret... You see, it's not easy being different from everyone else. Let me rephrase that. It's not easy knowing you're different from everyone else, and having to hide that from them.

"You can't let them know who you really are!" my mother cried indignantly, "we've been over this a dozen times!"

How can a child understand that? They looked the same. They sounded the same. Yet, in some inexplicable fashion, they were so different. "They just... They won't understand..." tears welled in her eyes, "Listen, sweetie, you know I love you, and I only want what's best for you, right?"

I shook my head softly. Did I believe her? Mom and Dad were all I knew, of course she was honest with me. She had no reason to lie, did she? What could she stand to gain from lying to me?

"Then you just have to trust me, okay? They won't understand... Not now... Not yet... One day when you're older, you'll understand why we have to keep things this way."

"I just want to be normal!" My cheeks were warm now. A distinct taste of salt struck my tongue.

"Oh! But don't you see! You're better than normal! One day, you're going to look back on all of this and realize what a blessing you truly are! Not just to me and Dad, but to everyone. One day the world will know you, and love you. Just not yet... Not now. I'm sorry, honey, I know it's hard, but I promise..." She paused. She had a way of speaking that was so reassuring. Perfectly timed pauses created such emphasis and impact on her words. I knew she spoke the truth, at least, what she thought was true. "One day you'll understand."
What I’m doing with my life
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Everything, yet nothing. I'm at an impasse right now, having advanced about as far as I can in my career until I have that expensive paper, that expensive paper that tells everyone how smart I am, and how hard I've tried. That paper that tells everyone that I'm part of the club.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a great Bane impression from The Dark Knight Rises, so I've been told. I'm not a performer though, so I rarely do it upon request.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My incredibly chiseled chin, or my gorgeous head of hair.

If you're reading this, probably how fucking wordy I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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American Dad was my shit until I watched every episode fifteen times... Now I'm a bit disinterested. I thoroughly enjoyed the first season of Bojack the Horseman. It's a bit more of a drama than a comedy, and I don't think everyone anticipated that, thus explaining the poor reviews.

The new Dark Knight trilogy, amazing movies. Fight Club. When Harry Met Sally - it's the perfect love story, IMO. I really like independent films in which it appears nothing happens, but in the subtext of the movie, everything happens.

I love barbecue. I am quite carnivorous. If I thought my body could function without carbohydrates and fiber, I would probably stop eating them. Alas, the body needs those too.

I'm currently reading The Sun Also Rises, and A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man. Next in line are, I think, Jane Eyre and As I Lay Dying (turns out it was a book before it became a shitty metal band!).

That last comment needs justification: I like metal, love it. I like hip hop, jazz, classical, oldies, the classic swing tunes from the 20s-40s. I LOVE Sinatra. I'm trying to say that I like a lot of music to say that I'm not judging the genre, it's just that As I Lay Dying is a shit band.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't think there's anything I could never do without outside of the necessities for life, I.e. Food, water, oxygen, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The optimal sleeping position for both comfort and spinal alignment. I've yet to find it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? I don't...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I considered signing up for A-List so I could see who's rating me highly.
You should message me if
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You're bored, you want to compliment me, or you have something interesting to say. If you don't have something interesting to say... we'll figure something out!