57 Simi Valley, CA
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My self-summary
To Be With Someone Who Will Love And Allow Themselves To Be Loved Unconditionally. Being able to wake up in the morning and smile! Respect / Honesty / Support, Commitment to the longevity of the relationship (getting past the seven year slump), Consideration / Empathy, Humor / Spontaneity / Flirting, Mutual hobbies, Validation / Acknowledgment Mutual interests, Enjoy similar vacations, Courtesy, Similar values / religion, Reassurance, Similar ideas on health / nutrition, Positive Criticism (Open to Learning), Open communications (expressing and listening, Shared Values, Compliments - sincere, Tolerance of differences, Give and Take / flexibility, Common Interests / Effort (Shared), Similar uses, ideas, respect for money, Friendship / Sharing, Complementing and enjoying the differences, Family network (in-laws) harmony, Knowledge and Experience Similar family values and child rearing, Risk / Openness, Similar priorities in family vs. work / work vs. play, Sense of humor, Not moody, Enjoy being with partner, Being acknowledged, Having fun together, Shared spirituality, Romance, Sense of adventure, Being supportive, Willingness to change, No negative jokes, Friendship, Privacy, Ability to compromise, Doing things together, Unconditional love, Sense of stability, Person who meets your needs, Trust!, Make daily time for the relationship, Likes to travel, Acceptance, Sharing ideas, Forgiveness, Cooperation, Intimacy, Laughing together, Sharing memories, history, tradition, No mind reading expected, Don't take each other or the relationship for granted - Put relationship first, Confidences maintained in marriage (sex life etc.), Growing and learning together; avoid complacency, Special celebrations (unique), Say "I love you." daily to spouse, Never go to bed angry - settle problems before the end of the day.
Did you fall asleep yet?

I am Shy, Fun, and Romantic
What I’m doing with my life
Living it
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: My Cousin Vinnie and Rudy
Music: 80's
Food: Italian, Mexican, Salads
The six things I could never do without
Remember to spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

And always remember, life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by those moments that take our breath away.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why woman don't take the 1st move.
You, do you exist. are you real and ready to take that chance. E-mail me to find out more.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing - you will just have to ask....... if you dare.
You should message me if
You live 10,000 miles away, don't speak English and looking for someone to allow you to get a green card. Wait I already get those type messages. (That was a joke and yet still it happens.)

I prefer to email once or twice and then exchange numbers. It's hard to judge someone's personality from an email. I would rather speak on the phone or meet in person. Let's not waste each others time sitting at a computer when we could be out enjoying life. Possibly together?

ALSO: if you hear from me and aren't interested, please don't write back "to be polite". I swear I won't be offended! If the train doesn't stop at my station, OBVIOUSLY it wasn't my train. PLUS if you DO write and want me to write back, give me something to write back about...I find finite-comment emails quite confounding, and may interpret them as lack of interest.

Wouldn't you be sad if I was "The One" but you were too lazy or busy to even say hello?? After all, isn't that why we're both here?

Deal breakers:
Someone always late
Cold and/or no PDA
What are your deal breakers?