Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Reasonably self-aware, thoughtful, unassuming, often shy, quiet,
devoted to those around me. I believe in the concept that "less is
more." However, I also like to experience the wide range of
emotions of which humans are capable. I enjoy my work but am not
obsessed by it. I try to live both small, by not being a big
consumer (whether of stuff or people) and large, by squeezing as
much out of life as I can. I try to give back to the world as much
as I take from it and do no harm.
I can be reclusive at times, and generally enjoy calm over stormy,
soft over loud, harmony over noise. I don't mind solitude but would
like to expand my circle of friends and acquaintances and if more
serious relationships should develop that would be fine.
I do think that when it is time it is important to love big, with
maximum abandon and intensity, or not bother to love at all.
I like to see equally the profundities and absurdities in
I am loyal, private, and irreverent
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in my chosen profession which I enjoy as much as when I
began some 37 years ago. I'm past the career ladder-climbing point
and am at peace with my present position and
I like to read, watch movies, play bocce ball (I built a court in
my backyard), walk, and do yoga but not to excess. I enjoy having
people for dinner and being in small groups. Something always seems
to need work around my house but I have learned some skills over
the years and am fairly competent doing that type of work.
I don't ski, chase younger women, or ride a Harley and am
comfortably past the temptations of a mid-life crisis. Those will
have to wait until the next mid-life, I suppose.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
....seeing many sides of an issue and was, for several years, on
the union side of a joint Labor/Management committee whose sole
purpose was to resolve conflicts when they arose.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, I'm afraid (as if I had something to do with it). Good
genes for which I'm not at all responsible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Of movies from the last twenty years or so I enjoy small movies
that tell a big story like "Cinema Paradiso" or "Big Night" I also
love movies of the classic Film noir era (if Gloria Grahame were to
come back to life, all bets are off). Favorite actors and
actresses: Grace Kelly, Richard Widmark, Lee Remick....also, a huge
fan of the classic character actors: Elisha Cook, Jr., Lyle Talbot,
and especially the one and only, Timothy Carey.
I watch the Colbert Report, the Daily Show and think PBS' Judy
Woodruff is the sexiest woman on television.
I am a classical musician by profession so, of course, enjoy all
its different forms, symphony, opera and chamber music, etc. I grew
up on 60/70's rock and roll, however, and still have a soft spot
for that era (Beatles, Stones, Kinks). I enjoy some jazz and oddly
enough, old standards, especially if they are sung in a quiet piano
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
knowledge that my children are safe and happy
ability to play music
potential for romance to flourish
ability to laugh
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am in the performing arts so I usually have a concert to play on
Fridays until about 10:00 after which I enjoy a quiet drink and
people watching at a favorite establishment. I may meet friends
after a concert but lately have have preferred solitude. If I go
straight home after a performance I will usually watch an old 50's
film noir movie to unwind.
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