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30 Aberdyfi, UK Non-binary, Agender

Non-binary, Agender

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 29
Demisexual, Heteroflexible, Homoflexible, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Not at all
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(My boxes)
Atypical Asperger's Syndrome;
'Spiritually' educated, if not inclined;
Likes relationships based on consent (freedom to decline any activity) and equality (one does not have power over the other);
Ethically non-monogamous;

I don't have a TV (I tend to forget that this is unusual).

Corrections for inaccuracies in my profile (because of restrictive and mandatory options)
Orientation: Not men
I'm looking for: Not men; Located within the United Kingdom; For nothing specified.

[profile last updated/re-written on 2015-07-07]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
(My ambitions)
Currently I'm quite focused on getting therapy, a good advocate and better care; I'm quite severely disabled and don't have much of a life. But other than that I like learn/unlearn things. I like to find new/better ways to think about and do things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
(An aquired skill that I am particularly proud of is)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(My immediately obvious positive traits)
I've got a golden hair in my left eyebrow that's bigger than all the others and it's beauuuutiful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(Books, films, series, games, comics, music and food that I consistently enjoy even after a long time)
Books: anything by Douglas Adams or Ursula Le Guin, ACIM
Films: The Man from Earth, Frequently Asked Questions About Time Travel
Series: Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Legend of Korra, Stargate: SG-1, Person of Interest
Games: Minecraft, Banished
Comics: xkcd, Poly in Pictures
Music: Regina Spektor, Beethoven, The Beatles, Tchaikovsky
Food: Miso soup, Buckwheat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(I am obsessed with)
This changes quite often so anything I say here will be past-tense almost immediately.

Some past hyperfocuses include:
asymetric cryptography
A Course In Miracles
various designs for software I haven't been able to make (one I have been able to make, and am very proud of)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(A regular self indulgent activity is)
watching some kind of sci-fi or fantasy, or gaming.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(A fact about me that seems like it should be private, but isn't)
I'm quite socially anxious. There are underlying causes that I don't want to talk about.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(Please message me if)
you're very undemanding and low maintenance;
you're autistic/aspie;
you have no style; and/or
you want to hang out.