harpereaves
30 Aberdyfi, UK
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My self-summary
(My boxes)
Autism/autistic/aspie/Asperger/Aspergers/Asperger's/ASD/ASC;
'Spiritually' educated, if not inclined;
Feminist;
Introvert;
Reclusive;
Likes relationships based on consent (freedom to decline any activity) and equality (one does not have power over the other);
Ethically non-monogamous (I enjoyed this article very much http://www.filmsforaction.org/lawrence/news/infinite_relationships_relationships_without_bounds_or_boundaries_love_without_limits/) AKA Relationship Anarchist;

I don't have a TV (I tend to forget that this is unusual).

My pronouns are they/them/their/theirs/themself.

Corrections for inaccuracies in my profile (because of restrictive and mandatory options)
Orientation: Not men
I'm looking for: Not men; Located within the United Kingdom; For nothing specified.

[profile last updated/re-written on 2015-09-24]
What I’m doing with my life
(My ambitions)
Currently I'm quite focused on getting therapy, a good advocate and better care; I'm quite severely disabled and don't have much of a life. But other than that I like learn/unlearn things. I like to find new/better ways to think about and do things.
I'm pretty keen at the moment on learning how not to be such a dick.
I’m really good at
(An aquired skill that I am particularly proud of is)
research.
The first things people usually notice about me
(My immediately obvious positive traits)
"So fucking hot" "intimidating, looks like a model" apparently. That is definitely not how I think about myself but that is how some other autistic people see me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(Books, films, series, games, comics, music and food that I consistently enjoy even after a long time)
Books: anything by Douglas Adams or Ursula Le Guin, ACIM
Films: The Man from Earth, Frequently Asked Questions About Time Travel
Series: Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Legend of Korra, Stargate: SG-1, Person of Interest, Being Erica, Fringe
Games: Minecraft, Banished
Comics: xkcd, Poly in Pictures, Sandra and Woo; Hyperbole and a Half
Music: Regina Spektor, Beethoven, The Beatles, Tchaikovsky, the sound tracks for Planetary Annihilation and Everything is Illuminated
Food: Miso soup, Buckwheat,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
(I am obsessed with)
This changes quite often so anything 'present tense' I say here would be past-tense almost immediately.

Some past hyperfocuses include:
asymetric cryptography
A Course In Miracles
various designs for software I haven't been able to make (one I have been able to make, and am very proud of)
On a typical Friday night I am
(A regular self indulgent activity is)
watching some kind of TV (I watch a lot of TV, I find it helps me), gaming, or conversing with friends online.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
(A fact about me that seems like it should be private, but isn't)
I'm depressed, all the time. Sometimes I have no symptoms, but I'm always depressed. This is not a problem for me and it shouldn't be for you either, just don't expect me be emotionally moved by things. Also I have a great deal of social anxiety outside of autistic spaces. I tend to avoid interacting with non-autistic people as much as possible actually.
You should message me if
(Please message me if)
you're very undemanding and low maintenance;
you're autistic/aspie;
you have no style; and/or
you want to hang out.

Please do not message me if you are monogamous.
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