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VKS123

29 / F / straight / Single

Albuquerque, New Mexico

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay)

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I am honest, sarcastic, and silly.

My Self-Summary

I have those "guy like traits", at least that is how I've heard it described. I'm more logical than most women, and I try really hard to base my decisions and actions in logic rather than emotion. I don't wiggle and giggle like most females, but I can be a girly girl on rare occasions. I rarely wear makeup, it's too time consuming to worry about it! I'll admit that I do have the female crazies every now and again. It's something that comes with the X chromosomes, and being wired to react with emotions first. I can usually keep my crazies in check, but sometimes they get the best of me. I dislike game playing, and can be painfully honest. If I have a problem with you, I'm going to tell you. I won't make you guess what I'm thinking or feeling, I'll tell you if I'm happy or pissed or whatever...and why! I'll never ask you if my ass looks big. I won't ask you to hold my purse while out shopping, I don't carry one. I have a terrible memory when it comes to unimportant things. I doubt I'll remember to bring up every little thing you said X number of months ago. Chances are, I've forgotten about it because I told you I liked or didn't like it at the time it was said. If you're looking for a "typical" woman, you won't find it here.

I love video games. I've attended and hosted LAN parties, role-played for D&D, and traveled hundreds of miles to hang out with the people I game with online. It's important that you understand the gamer culture...otherwise, how else will you understand that I'm the uber leet haxzorz?

I LOVE to learn, but I don't like typical school. I would like to learn something every day. Whether it be something complex, or something as simple as where the term "Tow-head" came from, I need to learn! I love vocabulary, logic, science, and math. My dad is an engineer, he had a lot of influence on my likes and dislikes. I'm fascinated with most everything in life, from the mechanical to the natural, I love it all. I tend to notice the small things that others overlook. No, I'm not the type to go gliding through life with my head in the clouds, and no I don't typically stop and smell the roses. But, I recognize the amazing things that happen in every day life. This includes anything from odd patterns in ice crystals to the rhythm of the white noise in my apartment.

I've had too many relationships (friendly and romantic) end because of my lack of religious beliefs. I don't believe in god, and I never will believe in god, nor will you convert me, unless you have concrete proof that a deity exists. I don't care what kind of beliefs other people have, so long as they understand that I'm entitled to my own, and am entitled to talk about my own as much as others talk about theirs.

I'm not looking for someone to complete me, finish my sentences, or shower me with compliments and gifts every second of the day. I'm looking for someone to share experiences with. I want to tell you about the weird thing that happened to me, or the person at work that pissed me off, or the awesome thing I did, or the complicated problem I figured out. Although I'm inarticulate at times, I will eventually finish my own sentences. If you want to compliment me, great! If you don't compliment me for months on end, I won't get offended. I'm not the type to require that you buy me gifts all the time either, even at holidays is questionable. I'd rather you buy me a gift because you saw something that reminded you of me, not because you feel obligated by tradition or society. I am a huge fan of personal responsibility. The type of guy I would like to meet should be patient, understanding, independent, and absolutely honest. I'm looking for someone with which I can be silly, go out to dinner/drinks/coffee, go for a walk, or stay home, cuddling and watching a movie.

What I’m doing with my life

I have a long list of goals I want to accomplish before I die. Most of them have to do with wanting a good job, house, etc. I set lofty goals, so I can push myself to hit them. Completing these goals is a big part of my life, but not all of it. I strive to improve something about myself constantly. I am not perfect, I know this. There's always something to fix about myself. Whether it be physical or mental. This goes hand in hand with the need to learn every day. I want someone that will accept that there is always room and need for improvement. I have completed my "traditional" education, aka I have my Bachelor's in Accounting. I'm working on finding a fantastic job in the crazy fun world that is Accounting. I currently have a job...just not a great one.

I’m really good at

Discussing a variety of topics and making people laugh. I'm a very opinionated person, and I have those strong opinions because I take the time to learn about them. I love a good discussion, and I LOVE being proved wrong. Being proved wrong means I'm learning something.

I'm sarcastic about everything. Life is too short to be serious all the time, or even more than 10% of the time. I'm silly, weird, sarcastic, goofy, and a lifetime kid. I'll never completely grow up...grown ups are boring! Plus, I come from a long line of sarcastic b*stards.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes and my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I don't have a specific favorite book. For genres I like sci-fi, mysteries, and light romance.

Movies: Princess Bride, Office Space, Emperor's New Groove, most Kevin Smith movies, and any movie with a twist ending or that makes you think.

Music: I love hard rock, metal, and some alternative. My current favorite bands are Alice in Chains, Disturbed, Metallica, and Black Eyed Peas.

Food: I'm not THAT picky about food. I'm willing to try almost anything once. My most favorite types of food are sushi and italian.

The six things I could never do without

My brain
My dad and brother
My friends
The internet
Netflix
Texting

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Pretty much anything. I live by one simple rule, question everything. I constantly change my view points and opinions. None of my opinions can ever be set in stone because I don't know everything.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends, spending a quiet night at home, or watching movies with my best friend.

You should message me if

You have something to contribute to an intelligent discussion, have a sarcastic sense of humor, or can tell me why Penn & Teller are not JUST magicians.