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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-49
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:20pm
White, Other
5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Radical individualist. Intellectually and financially independent. Socially adventurous introvert. College grad, fwiw. Former business owner. Writer. Design artist. Vagabonding traveler. Philosopher. Aesthete. Photographer. Yogi & competitive runner. Musician. Appreciator, cultivator of great relationships/friendships. Lover of dance: I'm a freestyle prodigy and classical novice. INT-J/P. Libertarian. Moral, principled. Younger in body and spirit than my chronological age. Selfishly benevolent. Starchild.

*** In addition to finding a romantic/sexual partner and friends - I am also looking for very compatible TRAVEL friend/partner(s)! I plan to go all over the world (various travels to South America, Asia, Europe, Australia), and am looking for a special friend/camrade(s) to accompany me in my vagabonding, through rough and spectacular. This could be one friend for all travels, or different friends for each trip ... sexual or platonic. ***
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm doing aesthetic design work on my beautiful contemporary home, my "life art" of the moment. I write, now and then, and have published some articles. I travel, usually for more than a week at a time. I develop my guitar and singing. I manage a rental home and investments. I am pulled apart into too many directions now, and working on simplification. Big goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Aesthetics.
• Running fast.
• Writing, critical thinking and analysis, and intellectual discussions.
• Being young forever.
• Photography - capturing great stuff with good composition (or v.v.). Ask me for the link to my online portfolio.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are usually the things that make them glad they got to know me better, once they've gotten to know me better.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
• The Great Gatsby, The Fountainhead, The Count of Monte Cristo, Millenium (Dragon Tattoo) trilogy. Hitchens, Nietzsche, E.E. Cummings, Rumi, Jane Oliver.
• V For Vendetta, Jean de Florette & Manon Des Sources, American Beauty, Lord of the Rings, Agora, Life Is Beautiful, Before Sunrise/Sunset, Cyrano de Bergerac, The Lives of Others, Casablanca. ([sigh] OK, and... early Star Wars) (And of course I love Shawshank, as does everyone. And Amelie. And yes, of course Firefly is cool.)
• electronic music, Iron & Wine, Clint Mansell, Vienna Teng, Anitra Holley, old fav Rush, some Elton John. Bob Seger's "Roll Me Away." Some "depressing-but-great" artists including Aimee Mann...
• sorbet, olive oil, falafel, ethnic food (particularly Indian, Thai, Vietnamese).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• beautiful, moving art of all media
• the adventure of travel
• yoga & meditation
• my guitar vocals
• running shoes
• Independence / Freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- a lot of self-absorbed yet epic stuff
- perfecting things, including myself
- the psychology of others' thinking (mostly: as cultural phenom)
- art
- political culture
- running
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm travelling, I'm more likely doing something adventurous or fun.
Otherwise, I could be doing something less exciting, like practicing my guitar, internetting, some kind of event, or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is written in invisible e-ink here:
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You can think and write well, are "literate unto your own soul."

- You're looking for a travel partner

- You like freestyle dance, whether EDM or ecstatic or urban (though classical dance is nice too)

- And/or if you just generally like what you see here.