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ValancyJane

28 / F / straight / Single

San Diego, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am joyous, authentic, and charming.

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My Self-Summary

I have a great sense of direction. I'm easy to excite, and pretty hard to rattle. I suspect having six brothers will raise anyone's chaos tolerance. I go a little weak in the knees for pesto. I love to dance, can't seem to stop, especially in my own kitchen. I'm very free thinking but house trained. I'm luckier than the average bunny. I pack light, and remember everything. I am never bored, ever.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a receptionist, and also one of those terrifying creatures who wants to be a writer. I know. That's worse than wanting to be an actor, isn't it? Please still be my friend.

I’m really good at

Paying attention. Untangling knots. Making babies smile. Climbing things. Shimmying. Letting people be just exactly who they are. Making sandwiches. Generally not being this planet's worst nightmare.

The first things people usually notice about me

Freckles. That I'm having fun. That I will say out loud that dirty joke we're both thinking. That I'm standing on my desk for no apparent reason and probably need to brush my hair. That you are envious of the lunch I packed.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Early 20th century fiction, Weekend at Bernies II (not I, II), the sort of music they play in iPod commercials, and coffee.

The six things I could never do without

Chapstick.
My bloggggggggg, so I can talk about meeeeeeeeeeee.
Mama, to tell me I'm right.
Online bill pay.
My strong willed but secretly very devoted cat Mau.
My two sisters, who make me vain in all the right ways.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Is the coffee ready?
How flammable is a tennis ball?
Why is there a handprint on top of this light fixture- oh that's right.

On a typical Friday night I am

Pouring wine for my friends (which usually includes my bestest friends LemonadeGirl1 or Playful619) and plotting mischief.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My cell phone is never more than a few feet away from me.

You should message me if

Please understand I approach my inbox with the embarrassment of riches. I'm in the strange position of turning away perfectly lovely men because I can't date you all, although lord knows I'm trying. :)

That said, I do look forward to hearing from you if you know who you are, you're good at parallel parking, you have at least a vague acquaintance with grammar, you can deal with a little cat hair, you know the band, and/or you give a good .... alibi.

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