---Arundhati Roy, The End of Imagination
Well, I'm Valerie and I'm 19 years old. I'm not looking for anything serious. As far as my personality goes I'm pretty laid back and get along well with almost everyone. I'm sure we can find some common ground. That being said, I'm the type of person where what you see is what you get. I am not interested in justifying myself to someone who has already judged me anyway. I make decisions based on what will make me happy, not to impress an arbitrary committee of judgmental assholes. Also, I'm going to be blunt. I tend to have "slutty" tendencies. But the amount of sexual partners I've had doesn't make me a bad person. That doesn't make me any less cooler to have lunch with, doesn't make me any less terrible at ironing a shirt, or any less likely that I'm going to love really shitty reality television shows I know are bad for me. Who I am and what I offer the world has nothing to do with my sex life. Now, just because I'm a "slut" doesn't mean I can't be committed if I find "Mr. Right." I'm just not going to be chaste up until I find him, if I find him. And let's be honest, I'm young. There is no reason for me to be sitting around waiting for some man. In fact, I’m not sure if I’m ever going to find the “right” person for me. I’m not even sure he exists. But I’m also not interested in spending any time waiting for a hypothetical person, or preserving my vagina in formaldehyde until he gets here. I am interested in going to school, getting a good job, an apartment, maybe even a dog one day, and my friends. I have an entire life to attend to which does not revolve around how close I am to getting married, and I believe I am happier for it. If that means I go out on several dates that lead to nothing, just for the hell of it — I’m okay with that. If that means that I sometimes just have sex with a booty call because I want to have a good fuck and take my mind off things for a while — I’m okay with that. My time is not spent waiting for anyone to validate me, because I am here to validate myself and my own choices. If I happen to find the love of my life along the way, great. However, I am not interested in playing silly little games. I'm upfront about my intentions and I expect the same. And please don't misconstrue my "sluttiness" as "I'll fuck anything with a pulse."
-caring and kind
I guess I've said everything important about me. If you want to ask me anything or whatever, don't be shy and send me a message(cliché I know). All I ask is don't send me messages that only say "Hey" or "What's up" or "You're hot. Come suck my dick". That will get you no reply.