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Valistar

23 / M / bisexual / Available

Silverdale, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Military
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am knowledgeable, nervous, and thoughtful.

My Self-Summary

I'm a pretty nerdy type guy considering that most of my free time is spent playing computer games or playing paper and pencil role playing games. The rest of my time (usually 13+ hours a day) is spent at or going to and from work. I'm usually pretty shy for the most part so if I don't message you first it probably means that I'm too scared to do so. I tend to be a bit paranoid at most times so sudden movements and loud noises often cause me to jump. I tend to like to get to know people as well as I can before really doing anything social or otherwise (for example: after 4 months I'm finally feeling comfortable with my peers at work to go to a party with them...).

I've reached a point in my life now that I am no longer looking for anything short term. I am looking for a long term relationship, hopefully with someone that I would get married to. I want someone to love and care and start a family with.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently in the military and that pretty much takes up everything that I am doing with my life. I don't really get out much right now because I lack a reason to do so. Currently I'm looking for some sort relationship and most of the time too shy to go searching myself.

I’m really good at

Apparently I have soft hands so I am good at touching gently. Otherwise I can't really think of that much that I'm good at. I'm not that great at gaming, writing, my job, relationships, etc. or at least I'm not great to my standards.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm not totally sure what others notice first about me. I'm usually a bit tense... I guess I'll have to start asking people to tell me what they notice about me first (even if it is just the pictures that I've posted). Okay, so apparently people notice my lips. I hadn't expected that, but whatever. I'm just happy that people are noticing me now.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

For the most part... Sci-Fi/fantasy or humorous for books and movies. I don't listen to much music though I'll put up with pretty much anything as long as it isn't too loud. I'll eat almost anything as long as I don't think that it will make me sick or could burn my mouth.

The six things I could never do without

Computer, books, food, oxygen... This list is likely to change somewhere along the line, but I'm having a mind blank right now.

On a typical Friday night I am

In my room playing video games for a lack of anything better to do. I don't get out very often. I try, but that only goes so far when I keep moving around so I don't really have friends around to hang out with.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I wish I had been born as a female instead of a male. With my personality I would have been better off that way. Unfortunately, as the process isn't perfect I will not bother with a sex change.

You should message me if

If you are an honest person who is willing to deal with a shy nerd like me. If you do message me, please write more than one sentence... the more work you put into your message the more likely I'll respond.