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66 F Portsmouth, NH

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Living near the magnificent coastline that borders Maine, seeking an opposite number: someone who laughs at life while taking it seriously (what is life if not a paradox). Would move elsewhere, like the Pioneer Valley in Western Massachusetts if it made sense.

After a failed career as a hippie, I spent twenty years as a broadcast journalist and visited 5 continents. I switched careers a while back and now lend my skills to an agency that helps people with disabilities.

My passions include reading, writing, film & performing arts, land preservation and social equity. I love fresh air, birdsong, the pungent smell of earth while gardening, a silvery wind chime...the soft rush of breeze while bicycling...the company of fun-loving friends.
What I’m doing with my life
I devote my life to family, friends, the great outdoors and the miraculously mundane. When not at my full time job, I'm experimenting with a memoir that I'd like to produce as a film. Vegetable and flower gardening are absorbing, rewarding ways to spend time.
I’m really good at
helping out, listening, following up, representing myself honestly (to a fault sometimes!), writing, imagining, discriminating, organizing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: The Barrytown Trilogy by Roddy Doyle; Film: Amour; Show: The Pickle Family Circus, Humor: Dave Barry; Music: Thelonious Monk, John Coltrane, Coleman Hawkins, Lester Young, Ray Bryant, Dan Hicks, Steve Earle, Billy Bragg, Richard Thompson, Mark Knopfler; the Carolina Chocolate Drops, Celtic & Folk music on WUMB, Brahms, Bartok, Scarlatti. Food: kohlrabi, beet greens, calamari, swordfish, baked salmon with balsamic glaze; home made soups and salads, brown rice, quinoa, hot cereal, peaches, fresh pineapple and apples--but wait! the food nazi in me succumbs to sweets - raunchy, unhealthy - oh YEAH baby...Oh NOOooo!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mostly, I let my monkey mind swing from limb to limb. I'll muse about the limitations of the human brain...the mystery of our universe -- the riddle of beauty intertwined with destructive power. And hey, when you get right down to it-- does any of it actually exist? Could it all be the fantastic dream of an inconceivable being? What will we discover next in the galaxies that surround us? What's for lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
welcoming the endorphins that rush in at the end of a work week, getting the kinks out at the gym or experiencing near-death by Bikram yoga, having laughs over a drink with a friend, cuddling my cat, reading a good book or relaxing over a crossword puzzle
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 54–77
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you are a mensch!