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Valuesman

26 M Tallahassee, FL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hello! Thanks for checking out my page. I realize a young, attractive lady such as yourself has plenty of options out there so I'll make this read enjoyable and worth your time. First, I have a passion for life. Let it not be said that we ever wasted a moment of the time given to us. There is just too little of it for us to leave the kind of impression on the world we want to. I am an active person. I hope you are too. I prefer to make exorcise play such as a basketball game, but I believe in staying healthy and mastering my body because it's something I have control over. Running isn't my favorite thing to do, but it's mentally challenging so I've been training for a marathon. Worry about what you can control, don't worry about those things you can't, and have the wisdom to know the difference between the two. No one who was ever successful didn't first win a battle over himself. Can you tell I like quotes? I am a cultured person who has done some traveling; namely, New Zealand, Australia, England, Spain, Italy, and South Africa. My parents are from South Africa which gives me an interesting twist. I've traveled there quite a few times. If you're the girl I'm looking for I'll end up taking you there one day for sure. Sorry, but there is no accent. If you ask nicely, I might fake it for you just for a bit if that's what you're into haha I am ambitious, sometimes to a fault. I plan on making as large a positive impact on the world as I can in a humble but confident way. Next, I feel this is a given for most people and I hope it is for you too, but the relationships I have with family and friends are a high priority for me. I make it a point to spend time maintaining the relationships that are most important to me. Being sociable is a strength of mine. I love meeting new people and trying to get to know them in a deeper way than they might be used to in a short amount of time. Many people say I could talk to a brick wall which is a good indicator of my gregarious nature. I am also a proud fraternity man. My chapter experience helped shape me into the man I am today. It brought out in me the principles and morals I live my life by now and I love the person I see staring back at me in the mirror these days. It's part of the reason I chose the job I have now. I have a good sense of where I am taking my life and what is important for me to spend my time on. Finding a loving relationship is pretty important to me right now and I'm spending time looking for the right girl. I've been in love before and know how amazing it is and it's worth taking the time to find the right person for me. Here's to hoping you might be that girl! Let's not make things too heavy to start off though. I'm just getting to know you after all. To end this on a light note, I'm always trying to make people laugh or tease them about something. If I'm making fun of you it means I like you a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working for my fraternity traveling the country and helping shape the lives of young men. I love my work because I feel like I am truly making a difference in the world by helping fraternity men return to the principles for which their organizations were founded upon.
I’m really good at
Leading teams of people to make visions become reality. I also pick up sports really easily. If it involved a ball I can usually figure it out. I am a great communicator and love solving conflicts between people. I am really good at being vulnerable with others. I am really good at holding others to a higher standard and challenging them to be the best possible version of themselves. I am good at pushing myself to continue to become the best person I can as well. I am really good at being romantic. I'm really good at being care free and living utterly in the moment of wherever I am. Life happens right now so I'm trying to enjoy it as much as I can and not worry myself to death about the future. As you can tell I think there is plenty to love about me haha
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm 6'3" so I get picked out of the crowd pretty quickly for that. If you don't pick me out for that people usually notice me for being loud. I don't hold back when it comes to laughing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Harry Potter, 1984, Ender's Game, The Giver, Everything Shakespeare, Good to Great, Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, How to Win Friends and Influence People

Movies:
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Snatch, Forest Gump, Sawshank Redemption, Charlie Chaplin Films, Alfred Hitchcock Films, Superbad, Shakespeare in Love, The Graduate, Boondock Saints, Inception
I'm a huge movie nut so I could go on forever

TV: Scrubs, Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, Friends, Walking Dead I don't watch a ton of TV

Music: Classic Rock, Alternative Rock, Underground Hip Hop, Some Pop, Some Country, a pretty good mix of everything really Dave Matthews is my favorite artist. If you love Dave I can tell you we'll get along great. To list a few, Franz Ferdinand, Mumford and Sons, Bright Eyes, Corey Smith, Third Eye Blind, Cold Play, AFI, Hoobastank, Queen, Pink Floyd, Aerosmith, Led Zeplin, Goo Goo Dolls, Atmosphere, Sage Fransis, The Streets, Carrie Underwood, T-swift (I admit it!)

Food: I eat everything you put in front of me. Life is way to short to be not trying everything you can. Favorites for me are Indian, Mexican, Sushi, and Thai. Pad Thai is something I just get an immediate craving for and have to find a place wherever I am.
The six things I could never do without
1. People
2. Basketball
3. Virginia Tech class ring
4. Whiskey
5. Chips and Salsa
6. TED Talks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What mark I will leave on the world and how I am going to make it a better place. I spend a lot of time analyzing myself and trying to be self-aware of my strengths and weaknesses. I spend a lot of time thinking about the girl that is going to make me the luckiest man in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wanting to go out and be sociable with friends and meet new people. I love dancing too and not just club dancing but swing and two step. I can't say I am great at either of them, but I can hold it together. I like small groups better than large ones because you get to know people better that way. Eventually the bug will bite me and I will need to go out and get a little crazy haha
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Once you've earned the right to know these things, then I'll tell you but I'm not putting stuff out there just becuse Ok Cupid tells me to
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Priorities - these things are mandatory
Communication skills - must be able to comfortably articulate your feels openly and honestly
Intelligence - must be a high level thinker that challenges me
Compassionate nature - must be a loving, sensitive, and empathetic person

It is attractive to me when a women:
has a college education
has positive body image
regularly works out
eats healthy
is detail oriented
has a clean and well organized home
is well read
loves learning
listens to alternative music
has traveled outside the US
is strong willed
is independent
displays leadership qualities
has strong moral convictions
takes pride in the way she presents herself
acts like a lady in appropriate situations
challenges typical gender roles
regularly does service work
challenges the status quo around her
is ambitious
is an optimist
can deal with conflict in a positive manner
has a good singing voice
is willing to be vulnerable
is clean and neat
went to Virginia Tech
has advanced degrees
is athletic
is competitive
challenges me to be a better man
likes to drink whiskey
likes to play pool
is an over achiever
was involved in student leadership positions in college
has parents who are not divorced
has a great relationship with her father
likes football or watching sports
likes to try new things
isn’t afraid to talk to strangers
knows how to work a room at a party
surrounds herself with people/friends who will be a positive influence
wants to have children
is an ambivert
has a sharp wit/likes to tease and banter
has played or understands the game of squash
knows or grew up with BBC culture
plays a musical instrument
journals
likes to cook
likes to have deep philosophical discussions or debates
is a good role model for my future daughter

It is unattractive to me when a women:
doesn't respect herself
is vapid
is shallow
is materialistic
is negative
is dishonest
wears too much makeup
doesn't believe in herself
constantly apologizes
expects to be taken care of
is entitled
has road rage
is rude to wait staff
expects to be paid for
has disdain for artistic endeavors
is not self-aware
is aggressively confrontational

Deal breakers
Unable to articulate feelings into words
Doesn't strive to live a purposeful life
Emotionally abusive
Addiction
Manipulative
Materialistic